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It's not a triad I have a relationship with my bf I have a relationship with my gf They have a relationship w each other The three of us cuddle, interact, watch tv etc but there is not intimacy between us when the three of us are together.

I am intending to read more of the thread, but there are definitely some off putting comments here

This was the only helpful advice, and led to no hurt feelings and a good experience for everyone. Thanks for helping me reframe how to approach these multiple relationships all at once.

Yes we are ready. Definitely - I've been the leg partner when the hinge wasn't able to communicate to the other leg the needs of our relationship (inc sexual intimacy) and it was awful ^ in response to it's going to be a failure I'd like to have 1 on 1 sex with C I'm not sure if I'm...

I've been w J for 3 years. We had a 8mth friendship during covid after matching on Tinder Dec 2019. Before dating I was solo poly, it was hard for him as he wasn't dating anyone, we eventually acknowledged we loved each other, but weren't ready to date. Then he started dating and I realized...