Recent content by ToyBallerina

I'm sorry, I meant to reply to you earlier, but got sidetracked. Huge, huge thanks to everyone for answering. It is hard getting thrown into something new, attempting to go slow, then have it pick up pace quickly in ways I wouldn't have imagined. It's good to know I'm not going crazy or...

Yes definitely, and I'm contemplating doing so. I wanted experienced opinions, because at the beginning it wasn't even close to being like this. It turned into this situation so fast it took me a while to just process what was happening.

I really shouldn't. I often wonder if they know they are doing it, hence I was thinking of having a conversation if it happens again. I'm dropping that option.

It's safer to say no, it's not a quad. Just an asterisk with Samantha in a middle. I could assume that Rachelle and Sara are possibly romantically involved with each other, but I'm not. Samantha just wants us to get along well enough to be friends or friendly, and the bigger one, sexual in a...

Logically I've been thinking this exact thought very heavily. I could've met her far sooner, but those plans got derailed due to staffing. You're point still stands though. It's silly to uproot and go live with her. It is a huge problem and a huge turn off. So far, it makes me a bit hesitant to...

Hi Kevin! I would love to be in a quad, at least if it didn't go too fast. I'm currently not okay with how I'm being treated. I feel left out, like a toy on a shelf. She has said a few times when things calm down she will have more time. I'll hold her to it while I worry about other things. I'm...

I have not met Samantha in person. Originally I wanted to visit last year. Unfortunately, a good half of the team I worked with took a vacation around the same time, so I communicated about planning it this year. I'm definitely getting my own place. I actually warned her about planning so fast...

This was my first reaction to speed with which they moved in together, coupled with the wife being long distance in another country. We all did have a group hangout yesterday. It went well, but it was the only time all four of us have gotten together. I had this thought in March, actually...

Okay, this is weird and I'm a but scared to post it. I was going to post it on Reddit but I thought I would rather try here. Registered to the site, browsed around, got so caught up in reading like a bookworm and forgot to post. It's confusing. I typed it on my phone, and it's late for me. So...