Recent content by tryingmybest

Hi everyone, I haven’t been online for a little while, but I guess this life story is going to be a bit different, because it’ll be told by someone who dated a poly person in the past, but is not poly themselves. (p.s not everything I write will be completely ‘poly-friendly’ or completely...

An update... I spoke to him a few days ago and I said I understood he must be pretty p*ssed with me and that I understood if he didn't wanna talk. He said "I'm not p*ssed, I'm in pain." I thought I'd really hurt him. But it turns out he was sparring with two black belts :) We talked for...

Morning Chorus. Morning Chorus. The birds sing my sorrow, No today, no tomorrow, Headaches and nausea are to come, Now I've let us come undone. To me, three's a crowd, To you, it's bliss. No wrongs done, Just an honest kiss. But darling, I am not one you seek, A promise to you, I...

thank you, it means a lot.

Thank you, :) even though thats something i feel i cant really take any credit for. if i were to treat him in any other way it would be cruel to both myself and him. hes my lover not my prisoner, at least, he shouldnt be. i guess there comes a point where i have to admit that monogamy is both...

hi everyone, still no reply this is the message i sent him, it is basically a break up message albeit a very 'weak one'. When i say ' hes calmed down' the 'he' i am referring to is one of my hallucinations i was having difficulty with and talking to my partner about. " I'm gonna go offline...

Hmm, I sent him a message explaining everything and he hasn't replied all day... Not a nice feeling :/ :(

Thank you :) that's a really good idea , I'll do that

i would mention that i have been struggling for a long time to actually get any help, where i live you dont really get any help unless you are hospitalised against your will. so it is not that i dont want help. they are just very unreliable and hard to get help from. hope this helps with...

thanks for the replies everyone :)

Hi everyone, I hope you’re all doing well. After my break from the board I’ve decided to come back and explain my situation in more detail. I’m 19 years old, and have been in a relationship with and older poly guy for a long time. (However, I would like to mention not an illegal amount of...

Wo 6400 Tinwen: not exactly but similar enough

Ok so you've decided (or more accurately, figured out) that you don't need to be in a monogamous relationship to be happy. Great. But what about the actual application of your chosen poly path (by that I mean whether or not you have a hierarchy or a quad or whatever works for you) what if...

hi everyone thank you for your replies. GalaGirl, yes youre correct in all that you've said. to answer problem 2: I'm in the UK and as far as I can find out, in the UK Emotional support animals are not considered to be necessary and their are no charities offering this kind of help. the...

hi everyone, I hope youre all well and ok. last year I signed up to the forum but so far, have only made one post, in which I was confused as to whether or not I was poly, over the last year I have come to the conclusion that I am not. However, my partner, who I have been on and off with for...