Recent content by TurnedTurte

Thank you @GalaGirl for your very thoughtful response.

@GalaGirl - a detailed timeline for you ;-) -1987 first date -1989 move in together -- looking back now, I can recognize her asexuality even back then -- never initiating, starfishing, just going along with it because she knew that's what guys wanted, etc... She was my first (and so far my...

Hi, I'm TurnedTurtle (M59), married to W (F56) since 1993 (first date in 1987), with one adult son. Two years ago we came to realize that ours is a mixed-orientation marriage (W is ace) -- we came to this conclusion while trying to bring sex back into what had largely been a sexless marriage...