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Thank you for your insight. No one is imposing rules on anyone. We BOTH agreed to these things. Agreements are a thing...

A Answered all this above. :)

My partner and I have been friends for 15 years, and in a relationship/married for 4. We have been practicing ENM for the entirety of our escalated relationship. We've made 2-3 verbal agreements in that time. After this happened we decided it was best to have them written down. We finished it...

Good catch. :) I am purposely not using gender signifiers or revealing what gender any of us are. It is irrelevant to the situation and implicit bias seems to occur a lot.

Thank you for your work on responding. A lot of things to consider. I really appreciate it.

I am in a situation where my married-to-me spouse cheated on me with our close friend. We are in an ethically non-mono relationship and have always had an agreement that my spouse would tell me when they were interested in someone. We also have an agreement that I not be home when they are...