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    I am sorry cant accept ur request

    I am sorry cant accept ur request
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    what do u want chat about ravi and what are ur interests

    what do u want chat about ravi and what are ur interests
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    it is most satisfying aditya. how is ur life?

    it is most satisfying aditya. how is ur life?
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    sorry canmon i cant help u urmila

    sorry canmon i cant help u urmila
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    can we REALLY love more than one person?

    It is possible to be in love with more than one person at the same time, without having necessarily having sex with both. I can vouch for this with my own elimited experience. We r in a polyamorous relation with another couple since nearly an year. We r living together, but it has remained as a...
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    First and foremost, you have to be in love with somebody, (more than one,) only then u will know for sure that u r polyamorous by nature and that too after the NRE efect has wornout
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    Polyamory's Image Problem

    I fully agree with this. Instead tagging on to other groups' magazine, It would be best if the people who r r having a successful and happy relationship start an exclusive magazine and invite contributions and moderate the entries. Then it can be kept clean and informative and can provide...
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    Polyamory's Image Problem

    my thread Hi love I am writing about myself and my developing relationships in my thread - relationship in quad. Since i am busy now with some work there r no new entries since a week. I will hopefully writing some time next week :)urmila
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    Polyamory's Image Problem

    the movement has just started and as we start forming local groups, with of course secrecy, it will definitely spread. As it attaons, what is called the critical mass, it will have to accepted by the society irrespective of who is controlling the media. This is how now the gay lesbian...
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    Love Languages - touch

    touch is theessential component of love. I cant imagine myself sitting next to my love without our bodies touching each other , at least our hands will be on each other
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    When is cheating considered cheating?

    I think she is much more frank than so many people. As soon she realised that she had started loving her, she has discussed with u. The most important thing for u to work on her to remove that guilty feeling and convince her that she was not cheating on you
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    Poly? Coverup for Cheating?

    polyamory is opennessand is opposite of cheating. He definitely doesnot give an impression of poly if he is having relationship with u without the knowledge of his girlfriend, and it is anybody's guess he might be having some more affairs going at the same time. my suggestion is kee off
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    bonding without the physical

    since u rr shy to show affection openly, u can try thro' e-mails and then in chats,. Then u might feel fee express urself atleast when u two r alone, then it will be easy for u r to express ur love when even when others r present. good luck
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    It is not just some moments of bliss, it is a conteneous blissfully happy and fullfilling life as for as I am considered. i am a pat of a quad relationship. Yes there r moments of doubt that is when we come here to learn about how to deal with it and learn by going through others experiences
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    New spouse wants sex with Saudi Virgin

    The issue is not him, his religion, or his virgin status, it is your marriage and your relationship with your spouse. It is not even about polyamory or open marriage. The way your wife is trying to control your sex life, while she remains absolutely free to do anything, it looks like she is...
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