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    Advice needed please

    Thank you all for the advice, I think I am definitely not prepared for all the ways this could end badly, and perhaps I am just seeing/hearing things I want to see. If I can't find the confidence to tell him how I feel, perhaps that is my gut telling me this is a bad idea. Anyways, thank you...
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    Advice needed please

    So here is the rundown, Hubby and I will be together 17 years this fall, we are awesome, we communicate very well, and are best friends, I was poly earlier in our marriage, had a bf and gf, she died, he broke up with me, and for a few years it was just hubby and I, now I've been feeling the...
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    I'm back, heheh

    Thank you both for the welcome Swirl and Kevin. And thank you Kevin for the advice, I will think on it and see what I'm willing to brave, for now I am keeping my feelings to myself, and if nothing drastic changes R and I are possibly going to a social event together in the middle of May, is it...
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    Polyamory in television shows

    "Polyamory" tv show on Showtime Has anyone been watching? what are your thoughts? (if posted in the wrong section, admis please move to correct section)
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    I'm back, heheh

    Heyla folks whom were here last time I was about, been a few years, I took a break from poly as my lady love died, my hubby of heart kinda dumped me and just focused on my husband and I. Hubby and I are awesome, talk and communicate so well, but I've been feeling the desire for another in my...
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    Poly Union/marriage Ceremonies

    Mono - This is without a doubt one of the most awesome things I've ever heard!! I love how it sounds, what it implies, and how it makes me feel to imagine it :D you truly are an awesome person, I enjoy how much you and RP share with us all on here
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    How did you tell people?

    and Derby makes a great arguement, some folks are not interested in/don't feel the need to come out to everyone they know, that is definitely an option, bottom line you have to choose what feels right for you, do you want to be open with everyone? or just a certain few? its your decision, and...
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    How did you tell people?

    simple answer - I don't, when it becomes obvious they can't handle the real me, then I simply either find the least painful quickest way to not have them in my life, or I assume the "glamour" I wore before opening up to them and simply "be whom they can accept me as" if its important enough to...
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    Biamory Clubhouse - a place for biamorists

    oh labels, labels, labels labels I see as being good for very minor short inadequate firt glimspes into our personal world by an outsider, but yes I'd love it if we all took more time to simply get to know each other and see where we fit together if we do instead of forcing labels that barely...
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    Sex positive/sex negative

    this whole thread is confusing to me, at different points in my life I would've been on both sides of this, so no idea where others would put me, tho I admit I don't much give a fig what others think of me, aside from those I love and I'd like to think those I love wouldn't think negatively of...
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    BDSM & definition issues

    some people love labels, some really dont like them, me, I use them when it suits my needs and or purposes does my definition fit everyone elses? most definitely not, which is why i've been told i explain things to death, cause i try to leave no gray area, i use labels and i explain what i...
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    What do you do for fun & hobbies?

    reading - mainly online recently, and fanfic mostly writing - i write erotica and fanfic flirting - with my firends/loves and whomever else lets me get away with it movies or tv shows - currently on a dr who/primeval/firefly kick and watchign one of those shows each night lately playing WoW...
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    Imagine your ideal relationships.

    first, let me say I just love the way Legion put it, sounds very wonderful, happy and full of love to me only thing I'd like to add would be in my "perfect" idea all my loves would live closer, within the same state would be lovely, I do like the idea of sharing the same space like a commune...
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    Congratulations to mono and redpepper

    Congratulations Mono and Redpepper!! :)
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    Values which cross boundaries of relationship forms

    (quoting this part here as I'm seeing it as being the 'big question' te respond to) for me, they would be the same regardless if your a perspective love or friend or somewhere in the middle no lies - this to me is crucial and i define this as being no big/important info type of lies, big stuff...
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