Recent content by VioletLight

This does seem very quick to me. When I gave myself to my Dom, it was because of a deep connection. I must know them more, even if it's just sex. Meeting at a Motel without really knowing him is risky. Fun is great, but safety has to factor in.

Rubidoux, You've really gave me things to think about. I have always had low self esteem and when I got with my husband, i put all my self worth on him so I really didn't give myself a chance to like me. But my inadequate feelings don't always go with an action.. it's totally all me.

she was my secret crush at the store she worked in. She is a lovely woman and I love her. So the wierd thing is, we have only been intimate alone 3 times. I'm excited about her and being with her but I find myself holding back with her until I can get over my obstacles. Her and I have been...

Yes her and I are in a relationship And she lives with us.

Hi. I know I was a bit vague. There are no hard limits, I've come to terms that I'm committed to this relationship. I am not as comfortable yet and it's going to sound strange, but it's still so weird to see my husband with another woman. My mind is turning against me and I feel so inadequate...

Hi All! I'm recently in a triad situation and I'm the only person having a struggle. I've been with my husband for 15 years and was expecting (wishing) something completely different in my marriage. Yes monogamy.. I met my husband and he was the only person in the world... fast forward and...

I'm sorry this happened. I would be upset also! I would be upset because he knew you liked him and the way he carried on with the sexy text and play plans. I think scarf should have said something to you as he knew that you wanted to be a fwb with him. I think people aren't always aware of...

The timing is terrible! He shouldn't be thinking of anything else but you and the new baby. I also agree that in the future, if he still wants to be poly, live separately and co parent. This subject will likely not go away if he is truly interested and if you are not, then save yourself some...

Sounds like an interesting read.. Thank you :-)

I couldn't agree more with this statement. If more people realized this, then they would accept how people love them and the different ways it's expressed.