Recent content by Whiskeyginger

I have been on a couple of months and its amusing, but not at all a resource for me to use as a dating tool..

I agree with everyone else, you should go now and learn the hard lesson here that some people get into poly for the wrong reasons, and that you deserve to have a wonderful girlfriend who wants you around always, who would never go days without talking to you, who isnt using you for some band aid...

she actually said she was both, she did not state anything in error. "I felt envy- I was jealous" "I felt jealous because I want a man to love me like that" both envy and jealousy, perfectly natural to feel and always useful in figuring out who you are as a person, whether mono or poly. lets...

http://polycule.tumblr.com/post/48900340850/dealing-with-equality-in-a-triad even though you are not in a triad, this still applies (IMO) especially the part about how amazing it IS to have an established loving couple in your life!

If you already are jealous about this mans wonderful relationship with his wife, I would say you are not ready for an open relationship with him because the closer you get with him, the more you will be witness to their relationship and the more you will have these feelings and that is not fair...

I have to agree, until you have actually spent time with this person,.....your relationship is still in the beginning phase...and you cannot question him adding another person to his life because you are not really fully in it as of yet. Texting/skype/emails/and letters are not a committed...

"I really like you but you are moving too fast for me" why can't people just be honest. if it hurts her feelings? bye. do you want to be in a relationship who cannot emotionally handle adult feelings?

When you say "shame on you" to someone who is just trying to be open in a community, where otherwise I have slim pickings in my town (and by slim I mean I do not want to hang with them), I take it personally. Me saying we dated women who would be considered a "unicorn" by the poly community...

Hi, I'm not sure if you even read my response. I do not think you did, or you wouldn't have just misquoted me and then attempted to school me. Maybe read more, react quicker less.

I despise the "unicorn" label. When we first realized that we as a couple wanted to explore polyamory., we encountered this label and laughed about it. As we got further into our emotional journey, spiritually figuring out what worked for us, what did not, who we wanted in our lives, we did...

communication is necessary for us in our triad. It is not fair for me to tell anyone not to text/chat/leave messages/send pictures just because I am feeling neglected. That is all me if I am feeling that. If I was in a mono relationship and texting my love, and someone said to me "you are...

How did we learn about polyamory? It just kinda happened through the both of us exploring our sexuality with each other, recognizing that we both were looking at women and then discussing how that made us feel. We are both really open minded and are amazing communicators and we organically...

Always treat everyone with respect Never force anyone to do anything they do not want too Never tell anyone how to feel, how to act, or love Always realize that you are part of something bigger and its not all about you Feelings of hurt, does not mean someone hurt you Be responsible for yourself...

I just say "I have a husband and girlfriend" or "that is my girlfriend" and if they have follow up questions I answer. I do not however tell anyone any information that is above and beyond normal curiosity (i.e. sex, living arrangements, etc).

They are supposed to develop a relationship away from you, they HAVE too or this is not going to work. This woman is not on a timer where she can only have him at a certain point, certain time of day, and only around you. using the "veto" is wrong, its unrealistic and its immature.