Recent content by Wiccan87

So far everyone I have met on this site seems like they would be willing to give you advice and there are probably more than a few that could give you some good suggestions. Welcome to the community. I wonder if the mods even have a mono relationship corner here.

I would suggest sitting down and reading one or both of these books together has alot of information and explains quite a bit about what he and you are going through. The ethical slut, and More than two. Sorry I don't have the links maybe some one else can post them here for you.

After four years of being poly he probably has one or two reasons he is starting to dislike about it. Knowing what those reasons are may give you a few options to make him feel better about the situation without having to lose anyone. I think you need to talk with him and see what the underlying...

Currently no contact at all so that wouldn't work either. Would have to be enough of a separation for the judge to see no contact.

We are already dealing with the court system so lawyer is already involved both me and my wife have one and yes step daughter is my wife's daughter. money is real tight paying bills is there but no savings at all tight. And I moved from Utah so that is where all of my other support is at. And...

We are all already in therapy and social services are involved but other than that none that I can find.

K to start with sorry about my grammar I don't like writing will be a hard read. K so just over a year ago marriage was opened up to poly. relationship with my wife and her partner are all doing well even considering the issues bellow. some issues with the house we were renting came up...

I'd suggest trying to stay away from the mythical unicorn hunt. Possibly date 1 person each if you are both open to the idea for many reasons. Finding one hot bi chick that works well with both of you, and wants only the 2 of you for a closed triad is very unlikely to happen. As for looking for...

Best thing I can suggest is to ask her to slow down some. You seem like you are trying to support her in this. least she can do is give you some time to get used to it, and work a little slower at it. after 17 years with you 2 months going slow should be reasonable.

So I've been living with my wife for 6 years married for 2 with 2 kids we recently found out that we had to move (3 months or so ago) and was in a tight spot already financially so a good friend of my wife's offered to help us by letting us have the basement. He has known her for 20 years or so...