Recent content by xatuuu

Hey beautiful community!! ❤️ I'm here to update you about my situation with L and E, and my own reflections through these weeks. GalaGirl's words resonated deeply inside me. I didn’t know the concept of the “bargaining stage of grief”, and that’s exactly what I was doing... with L. With L, we...

Hi everyone, I’ve been away from the forum for a few days because I stopped receiving email notifications and just noticed your replies. Thank you so much for taking the time to try to help me, without expecting anything in return. That truly means a lot. I’ll do my best to engage thoughtfully...

It would also give L the chance to meet new people and explore other relationships, since people tend not to approach him because they assume we’re still together. On top of that, local dynamics don’t really encourage others to approach him. And because I feel I should protect my daughter from...

Hi Kevin ☺️ thank you so much for reading and replying 🙏🏽. Technically I don't need them in my life, I could work it out without L and E, the thing is that I don't want to. And I think is too soon to sit down with both of them, they tolerated themselves in my birthday party and that's the...

Nice to meet you Tinwen ☺️, thank you for reading and replying to me, I really appreciate it 🫂 I agree with you, I'm not taking the responsibility at all. I have ADHD and usually end burned by overthinking about which is the right way to do this, and that's precisely the reason why I came to...

Hi Magdlyn, nice to meet you ☺️ Thank you so much for taking the time to read and reply, I truly appreciate it 🫂. It is, in fact, a conservative, quite sexist and religious town, located in South America. Twice a drunk man has cornered me in the street and tried to grope me. Despite this...

Hi everyone, nice to meet you ☺️ I really need advice. I honestly don’t know what to do, so I’ll try to explain my situation as clearly as possible. I’m coming out of a 15-year monogamous relationship with L — we have a 12-year-old child together. We used to live together in his hometown, a...