Recent content by xmoonember

Thanks for your insight. I do understand solo poly (my partner Raven is), so I was just being a bit rhetorical. 😅 Based on your reply I'd also consider my relationship structure as polyamorous. I just don't understand why others would suggest it isn't.

This is what I was basing my response off of. But you and I seem to have a similar idea of what constitutes polyamory.

Thanks for the reply. I actually had to pull out my laptop so I could properly respond (typing is easier than texting haha). So Duck and I live with his parents and our kids while we aggressively save up for a home of our own. This allows us to go out after their bedtime since someone is always...

You know what, I think you're so right. I was looking at this through a different lens than he was.

He's a busy guy and I don't think he puts as much stock into our relationship as I do. He's also just kind of clueless but generally receptive to feedback. We had a talk a couple weeks ago about where we stood (more thank just kink partners, more than FWB) and I think that sunk me a bit deeper...

Moot. I kept trying to tee it up for him to ask me to go. Earlier he had asked if our usual Thursday date night could be a throuple night with Raven, which I agreed to. But I suddenly don't feel like I'm a priority. I like having our 1:1 time and now I'm not getting it at all this week. Not to...

Ugh, you might be right. I just asked if he's going with Hawk, and he said, "Going might be a strong word. We’re just meeting there and getting up to shenanigans." But like, still not asking me if I'm going. I guess I should say something since he's not a mind reader lol.

Thanks for the feedback, Kevin. I'm pretty sure Finch is aware of my hesitation with Hawk (I've definitely mentioned it before). He probably isn't considering it in the context of this event, though. I'm someone with lots of deep feelings, and I try to keep my relationship with Finch light...

I think we're only going the first day, which is from 5pm-late. I've never gone to this type of convention before and was kind of hoping to stay with him. I just don't want to hang out with her. We're all in a shared Discord server together, and he's already offered to be a DD for any...

My partner, Finch, invited me to a convention later this week. I'd really like to go with him but am feeling hesitant. I know Finch plans on seeing some folx from our local kink community. One is a woman he enjoys scening with, Hawk. Hawk is very popular and has a pretty large online following...

Ah yeah I can see where that got confusing! Allow me to break it down more clearly. Duck is my husband and primary partner. I date both Raven and Finch autonomously. We have our own relationships together. Duck additionally sees Raven autonomously. Duck and Finch do not date. Raven, Duck, and...

Hello! You can call me Ember. I am a 35F from SoCal who recently fell into polyamory. I'm neurodivergent and enjoy various special interests including K-pop, anime, games of all kinds, and reading. I love chatting about all types of hobbies. 😊 My current relationship structure: Duck (35M)...