So how it all started was alot of discussing how it all works, giving reassurance and what not abd I decided why not give it a shot and see how it goes we had talked about it previously and i wanted to build our foundation first and it came back up later on which is where i became agreeable to...
Originally she never wanted to have a relationship but I was able to get her to agree to one date and see how things went and everything went well so it lead to another date and eventually became an official relationship
I have always been in mono relationships and my current girlfriend and I have talked about having a poly relationship. It took some time but I finally agreed to her having another partner (I have no interest in having anyone else). Now here is where my troubles come in, i completely understand...