Recent content by yul

Thanks for answering! I would say regardless of the configuration..couple or solo..it seems women do not want to share in general. Perhaps my title should have been ...WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO SHARE!!! They want full undivided attention from the SO! If they do allow for some part time...

Hello, In could write a long story about my life but in essence, I am in a LTR with my GF and we are both open to some degree. I have been in the kink, alternative and mainstream scenes. Regardless of how the subject is being approached (without any advances), I am yet to find a decent woman...

Thanks for your responses! In no way would a secondary partner be unimportant.That would never be the case. I am very caring and affectionate regardless. Because she would prefer to be part of the "arrangement" but, even if she is not participating, she does want to feel comfortable and...

So sorry, I typically don't respond in such a way. I didn't like the recommendations of the previous answer and felt insulted. Anyways, I have made corrections to my original post and my answer too. Anyways, any help is welcome! Thanks!!

I think you must have mis-interpreted by post. I have made some corrections. Sorry. How can I date separately if my GF is not feeling comfortable with it? That would be disrespectful.. What makes you say that I would still want a trashy party animal if my GF isn't comfortable with it? I only...

(revised sorry!) 3 years now, going nowhere, frustrated..dead end Hello, 3 years now since I have tried to change my 8 years relationship. I am here today, completely confused and lost about if poly is even possible. My main interest in poly is diversifying my sexual experience. Some said...

So you are saying that participating in some dating sites or events would be acceptable even if you are only looking for friendships? I need to think about this...thanks!!!

Ghee thanks! Please explain how I could go to dating sites or speed dating (poly or not) without being creepy? I know I have seen some dating ads from people in relationships (for extramarital sex) but I am not sure if this would be accepted by my SO.. :eek:

Just someone that can go for coffee, have conversations, go at parties, go to shows, picnics etc..simple things. There ARE some interesting people around me occasionally but they are simply not open for friendships as far as I can conclude. Especially the opposite sex since many are in...

I indeed work in the computer business and train martial arts. I love both to death but there is no possibility of meeting the kind of people I would like to meet there. And yes, there are plenty of losers in the bar scene as well as performing arts. I have actually been involved for in it...

Well it turns out the things I enjoy doing don't really have a whole lot of interesting people unfortunately. Even at work or where I train, it's really boring. I know not focusing on gender is the way to go but I really want to have girl friends. Not even for poly or sex or anything. I...

Hello, need some help here please...I am very depressed. I am 37 yo, in a LTR and my SO is willing to accept some openeness in my relationship as long as there is friendship and knowledge of the situation. Now, while I just can't go and pick up girls randomly for dates, it was suggested that I...

Thanks soo much for your reponses! So much great material to reflect on. I actually have a date tomorrow with someone I met. I am going alone only for a few hours. I am hoping she will not freak out if the subject ever comes to the table. Thanks!

Hello, simple question...hard answer? I usually have no problems whatsoever picking up girls when I am single. I have actually studied the question quite in depth and have always had great results...but now I am in a relationship. There is this girl I am very interested in...she works in a...

She is not my domme. We do not engage in BDSM whatsoever. She does have tendencies. Anyway... ugh. I told her I would not accept that, and that we were nothing but friends at this point. Thanks for your help.