Recent content by ZuzusPetals

Not exactly sure what is happening. As far as my husband that is a work in progress, he and I have a lot of love but also a lot of communication we need to work on. As for my meta I don't know if she's pulling away, I think it's always been this way with her, and I am just seeing it as a pattern.

We have always had a KTP dynamic and it seems to work. My meta and I have worked on a relationship now for about a year. I have invited her to different events, lunch, activities etc. she always has shown up and seemed interested and engaging. I have started to notice that i am always the one...

It's definitely taking away from us, and sex has been almost non-existent between him and me for months. As for my meta, she isn’t aware of this, as far as I know. I don’t know if I could do DADT. That is what he would like, I’m sure, but it seems like that would be just a free pass to chaos.

I often think that shame is the culprit here. He’s seeking out women for BDSM sexual encounters, which I am open to and have expressed interest in. However, he has refused to explore that with me. He was raised by a very religious mother. Maybe that’s where the shame comes in. I just don’t know...

Yes, there is absolutely no issue with my meta. We all get along. We go out together. Everything is good there. However, he has this need to seek out other women for sexual encounters and not tell either one of us.

I am in a poly/mono marriage. I am the mono in the relationship. My partner has had a partner for the past year. We all get along great, so no issues there. The ongoing issue has been that my partner has this need to pursue other women, not for relationships, just for sex. This has been going on...