ZuzusPetals
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I am in a poly/mono marriage. I am the mono in the relationship. My partner has had a partner for the past year. We all get along great, so no issues there. The ongoing issue has been that my partner has this need to pursue other women, not for relationships, just for sex. This has been going on for years. He is on many social media/dating sites. He deletes messages, uses telegram to communicate with women, etc.
After years of me asking for him to be open and honest, he still will not and hides things from me. I have never given him a reason to not be able to trust me or be a safe place to share, so i am really confused as to why he cannot be honest and hides everything. I am at the point now that i dont think he will ever change and i am questioning if i want to continue this. I have started to become very resentful. If anyone has any insight or has gone through this, i would love to hear thoughts.
After years of me asking for him to be open and honest, he still will not and hides things from me. I have never given him a reason to not be able to trust me or be a safe place to share, so i am really confused as to why he cannot be honest and hides everything. I am at the point now that i dont think he will ever change and i am questioning if i want to continue this. I have started to become very resentful. If anyone has any insight or has gone through this, i would love to hear thoughts.