hey, i know i am female and you are gay, i wonder if you want to speak to my husband more, he's bisexual and interested in down to earth guys who are family-focused, like you. we want to foster/adopt in the future, but we already have 2 bio kids and 2 step kids that visit us. i'm very comfortable with him seeing other guys. he's 42, can't remember his exact height and weight but i think it's close to yours. if you want to take a look, our okcupid profile is http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Spider_Snakes/photos#0 he's not online a lot so it's mostly about me, but there are a couple photos of him in there.