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She wrote polysecure and polywise. I haven't read Opening up or myltiamory I will check them out.

Exactly. This has been a year-plus journey for us. And we haven't planned on dating anytime soon. We want a couple's therapist who specializes in poly to help us with research, etc., first. She is much more experienced in this area than me so I am gonna have to be a good student. It's both scary...

As an update, we are moving forward and dipping our toes in. Thanks for the advice and introspection. It is really appreciated. Part of me still wants to stay in my shell, in the safe space of monogamy, but it is like a weight off of my shoulders and I feel more myself.

Oh yeah, I have little to no income, for sure, and that is a logistical thing we would have to address. But she is supportive in this regard. In terms of budget and spending, we have erred on not having set limits, but also being reasonable towards each other. Like, I am not gonna go out and buy...

We are a pretty open family. I don't think we would be closeted in that regard. In terms of time commitment, that might be more of an issue for my wife. (She travels a lot and has unusual and inconsistent time commitments at work.) But I tend to have a lot of down time, mostly because I have to...

Hi, My wife and I have been together 13 years. While we have both flirted with the idea of non-monogamy before, we never really committed to anything. Over the past few months, we have become more comfortable with the idea of a poly-lifestyle change. At the end of the month, when she gets back...