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I have yet to find anyone, let alone in my AA family that agrees with me entering into a poly relationship. All comments are of the same lines as stated above as this is typical transferring of addictive behavior, trying to set my hair on fire to feed the chaos.

And no I do not think I'm putting him in a position to choose. He said that he would keep inviting everyone he wished to and it would always be my decision whether to attend or not, and I think that's fair. This is my thing to work on and I don't need to include anyone else on the ride. I...

I wouldn't say I'm afraid of being secondary, but moreso I do not want to be in a situation that I feel is being run by someone else. I have dated another person who is married, and I have no issues with his other people because our definitions are clearly set, and they all live far enough away...

That said, anyone who wants to share the good the bad and the ugly of this while I overthink it to death, it would help.

Right. I think at the moment until it settles in my head it would be worse if we did. I'm still not sure what I want of all of this, I don't want to be disrespectful, but I need a bit more space than the average bear sometimes. I get the impression it's like she's reading a handbook, "ok so...

I'm not sure who is setting the standards. My partner is attempting to have two girlfriends of equal stature. I have been hearing from him on her wanting things to progress with them, which to me would put them as a primary couple. He was having a party and had wanted us both to be there...

I could use some stories and experiences on meeting metamours. I am new to being in a poly relationship, and am really trying to give this an honest chance. I have been in this relationship for 4 months, he has been in another relationship for almost a year. She has been pressing to progress...