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Well I think people talk about "sharing" their husbands, I think the more appropriate question would be "how does he feel about you having a love relationship with another man?" Sharing also implies that people are finite resources that can be divided up.

I'm sorry, I don't understand what you are asking me.

No I'm not attracted to other women, and I'm not really attracted to him as a woman. So it's been a bit of a process.

I don't think he feels that way. I'm as supportive of him as I can be. It's not a sexual thing for him. I know it is for many but that's not why he does it. If he's bi that's fine. I'm not really concerned with it. I have never seen any signs of it. He and I have spent a lot of tone in gay...

We have been talking and crying and talking more. Last night we agreed that if this doesn't work out we are going to stay friends. Which I know a lot of people say but this was a very intense and deep conversation. I've been having a lot of guilt and shame over this that I am working on. It's...

Well our last session was very intense, he was very open and emotional. We had a talk after ward and that was very intense as well. Another talk last night. I feel like I am starting to have hope that even if things don't work out with us being able to stay together we are still going to love...

I know that there are mono/poly couples. We have talked about that option and I have asked him to read some articles about it. We went to counseling together. It was a bit strange. He likes her and I do too. I felt like I did more of the talking. He seemed to kind of freeze up and wouldn't...

I don't know how I would handle this. I feel like my ring is kind of like a security blanket in a way. Or maybe I'm just so afraid of losing it that I don't want to take it off. If a potential partner asked me to take it off, I would have to ask my husband what his thoughts were on it. I...

Oh no I just wrote a long post and then lost my internet connection and now I have to start over. Well long story short....we are looking for a counselor. Found one out of network, will make an appointment next week because she said she does have openings. We got into a fight about it all this...

I definitely will. We had a really long talk this week that was tearful and emotionally exhausting. There was a misunderstanding because I thought that he had said absolutely not to poly and just wanted to go to counseling so we could figure out what to do next. And I started to think that if...

I brought it up because it's a part of who we are as a coupke. I am accepting of it. I'm not attracted to him when he is fully dressed but he is ok with that. I don't expect that he will accepted poly just because I accepted CD. We had been dating a few months when he told me so this is...

No I told him I was interested in it and we discussed it. We had about four long conversations about possibilities and what if and he said he just couldn't imagine wanting to add another person to his life. And he couldn't imagine being ok with me having another partner. And then I just told...

That's a good point. I have told him multiple times it's about love and he says bit you would have sex right? And I say yes. And he says no way can he ever be ok with that.

Hi I'm new obviously. Husband and I have been together five years, second marriage for both of us. We both have kids who live with us. We are both early forties. He is a straight cross dresser. He told me four months into our relationship and I was shocked but grew to accept it. Parts of it...