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well living together can be difficult. meaning.. you never REALLY get to know someone UNTIL you live with them. But I think it can work as long as each of you have your own personal space. Everyone needs personal space.. mine is my chair by the heater. Im alittle like archie bunker when it comes...

Well its like you say.. in no exact words... atleast you found out NOW. Instead of finding out later. Poly is as diffrent for each family as there are leaves on trees. So if I were you i'd do some research.. and all. And if you need to talk just give me a holler. I'd be more than happy to help...

hi I myself think this man needs more help than you can give him. Sometimes someone is like this because of learned behaviors from their family members when they were children. But not always. I think he needs some counciling to get to the root of his problem in this area. Meanwhile if it was...

Religion was not meant to harm others..... people do that. i have a diffrent perspective on it all I guess. I take some of what the church says as good.... then some of how they interpret things as the bunk. I choose to live close to the creator.... and in my heart I know what is right. As does...

Well, I just hope that my husband and I find a lady that will love us both as time goes on. Because after all, folks, in the end all that matters is what's inside. The thought of someone sharing your life through all its stages is to me the most loving thing anyone can do. It shows strength like...

Well, if you're comfortable with him and her being together, that's cool. That should be enough right there. I know we've had ladies want to be with my hubby, and I just didn't find myself attracted to them. So it ended up being him and her physically, and me and her being friends, which was...

Good lord, I forget what 23 was like. Must have been uneventful.;)

When you truly love someone, it's kinda like my great-grand mother said (rest her soul)-- she said, "You know you love someone when you're old and grey, you look at them and see the same person you fell in love with all those years ago. No matter the wrinkles, grey hair, or no hair whatever, you...

I know for a fact I could NEVER swing. I view poly as a very special commitment with the people involved, but that's just me. While swinging isn't for us, those that do, no skin off my nose. Just don't expect ME to do that sort of bit.

Well, at least now you guys know how he feels about it all. You can honestly say you've gotten over a hurdle, so to speak. I was right, though. He didn't kill ya! ;) It was either yea or nay. It's always easier later on, most of the time, anyway. If someone else comes along, at least you will...

well.. this is just my thinking... but you say you seperated from him... and he's dating another person. But yet you say you have strong feelings for him... just so im on the right page..... Give it some time.. you dont want to seem like a stalker.. so.. let is slide... for awhile.. if he comes...

Well, I can only speak for myself. Each family has their own dynamic they are comfortable with. I'll tell you why we are the way we are, in order to shed some light on it. We are MFF, although as of right now there's no one else with us. Anyhow, the reason we don't have a MFM relationship is...

I hope to find our poly again.Its something that works best for us.... again Congrats on your family... i hope you have many happy seasons together!!!!!:D

hmm i got to thinking about the seasons... how many cultures celebrate the changing of the seasons and all. whats some of your "rites" so to speak. The way we do is each spring we plant something..... pick a nice spot and plant a flower or something like that... also I do spring cleaning We also...

Trust is a hard thing to earn, let alone earn it, then lose it. I hope it gets better for you.

three words WHAT THE FUCK?! sorry just had to say it... sometimes theres no other expression that would do. Seems like he dont want a comitted relationship at ALL.... seems like he just wants to party. hun...WHEW what a situation your in. In your post he's told you in no less words that he...

better to get it ALLL out... than to let all that negative energy swell up and make you all sick. stuff like that can make a person physically ill. So I know its silly.... but what i do when things bother me and I cant get over... WORK. and while im beating the shit outta a nail or whatever.. I...

Well, I guess I'm a little more blunt on such things. I am not shy. In this situation, I suppose you kinda need to tiptoe through the tulips on it, so as to not run the person off. lol. I think I'd just say what you want, and explain it's not a swinging thing at all. Seeing as how you guys have...

yeah cant have to many like minded folks IMO.

insane clown posse fonz's pond... was listening to black sabbath :D