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I wish I could of seen MeeraReeds thread http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=22633 several years ago, It would of made my life easier. For a recap, my wife and I always had a platonic relationship and we had occasional sex. Eventually, we both wanted a family, so we...

No.... Just because I have thought about it so much, it doesn't mean I have it all figured out. Reading over what others have experienced gives me even more to think about. I just don't want to lose my lifelong partner over our mismatched libido. Not sure about the not 'in love" thing. Maybe...

Frisky I am not calling it poly. I am calling it open. The ideal situation would be that it could be poly at some point in the future. That may not be possible. I am the ultimate nice guy. I am flirting a little with many women. Most have a problem with me being married. For good reason...

OK guys... I feel like a dweeb, On a whim, I went out for lunch by myself at Becks Prime Restaurant/Sports bar...Not the place that Estrella works. I sat down and sitting across from me was a sweet looking interesting attractive woman, also dining along. I first thought she was waiting for...

Or High (sex) Drive Low (sex) Drive

Welcome Jens, New myself and exploring as well..

Many monogamous marriages are not fair. People do change in all areas of their life over time, including sex. Some people are HD in the beginning of marriage and become LD over the years. Some accept a LD marriage early on, but eventually their true nature emerge and become HD. That may mean an...

What does your hubby say in all this? Not that it should matter to him...if you bf hangs out with the two of you, I would think your hubby would waked him up.

I can feel your frustration now... If you get off that train, if doesn't mean you can't get back on later on...You may not want to Maybe you have to let him reach his bottom... With you gone, he may get there faster... Why do you care so much about him? Just wondering...

Being fair is relative. I don't believe it would be unfair to my wife when I develops a romantic relationship with another woman. I agree, I think it would be unfair to a new relationship, if that person wanted more time with me than what I would be able to give. It is not very different...

So just ask her the same thing as I did with Angelina? Just ask Estrella... " how do you feel about open marriages? How come that seems like I am just after sex?

I saw Estrella again... I missed her the last two weeks because I went at a different time... She knew I came in because she asked some of the staff if I came in or not...I think she was disappointed that I came at a different time... Sometimes she is busy, but it seems like she wants to...

I know where you're coming from. There are many divorced women in our town home community who know the both of us... A few of them asked me how I put up with her attitude... One told me to "man up". Another says the same thing as you.... She actually said " I hate to watch your wife walk all...

Seems I got this wrong here... I think k your bf can't make that leap away from his wife.... Something keeps him there.....As it seems you are losing respect for him anyway...he's a pussy to you... So his life, his wife doesn't and shouldn't matter anymore to you.... I think you are ready to...

So Poly... You're making him choose? Something is keeping him attached to his wife...Maybe he feels he would be lost without her...Maybe he doesn't want a messy Divorce. Maybe he likes the idea of being married, especially bathing their circle of friends... I know for me and for my business, I...

I don't know what my nirvana would be. I haven't found it yet. I love my wife, but there is no sexual chemistry. I don't believe any one person would ever be everything. It is nice to know that if I have an interest in another woman, even sexually, it wouldn't end our marriage. That is my...

I m new to poly/open marriage. I seem to enjoy flirting more now than before. Most know that I am married. Some women flirt back as well. All in fun. Some of the women in my circle know I have an open marriage now... It did seem to change the friendships... Not necessarily for the...

Welcome. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years. We recently opened our marriage... Haven't acted on it yet. I am just having fun meeting new people and flirting with the ones I find attractive.

Hey Colors- My wife and have been together for 22 years. She is my best friend. For the first 20 years, we may have spent a total of 5 nights apart...Neither one of us had outside friends...On weekends, we were together, unless one of us had to work... That was wrong for us to do that... I...

Thought about asking what she thought about open marriages in general. I asked Angelina that and she is cool with the idea...We won't go out on a real date though...She has more drama in her life than what I would like... She would be a short term fling... I am after something more... Something...