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  1. Smiles

    open or poly?

    Rodney Dangerfield once said in one of his comedy acts that his wife was so passive that he thought he was married to Valium...That's my wife in many ways....
  2. Smiles

    open or poly?

    My talk was cut short with Angelina...I had a client... I am excited now knowing that she isn't married...I just don't understand why they/he wants everybody to believe they are still married...its been three years. I've been telling her about some of the women on my hikes...Then when I told...
  3. Smiles

    open or poly?

    One additional possibility.. I told a colleague about our open marriage.. A woman (Angelina)I have known several years...For some reason, she hasn't told anybody that she has been Divorced for three years...I have no idea why she has done this...She is a mother of 3 kids. The ex huband was her...
  4. Smiles

    open or poly?

    I do understand this. It would be hard to separate sex and emotions....I would be the type to "think" I was in love...I do know it would be the NRE...that's it... My wife never wanted to communicate her feeling out of fear that we would Divorce...We recently started having more sex (as of three...
  5. Smiles

    open or poly?

    My wife (Perlina) is passive aggressive... She will avoid a conflict at all cost... She doesn't want me to fall in love and divorce her...She would be happier if I had a NSA relationship...no emotions or feelings ... I know my wife sees us as for friends than lovers. She even told me that...
  6. Smiles

    open or poly?

    There's some new interesting development's. There are several women I am working on, so Its time I give them names. I am kind of a dummy and I just have to pick up on any clues that they might be interested... After 22 years, its so new to me....I also feel like I am doing this with both...
  7. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    What I find interesting is that all my love interests are totally different from my wife, physically as well as personality-wise. The reason is that 22 years ago, I was a totally different man than I am today. Back then, I had very little confidence. I was broken. My wife was the friend I...
  8. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    Polybynature, do you have a relationship with bf's wife, as well?
  9. Smiles

    open or poly?

    I don't know if there are possibilities or just wishful thinking... I am just having a good time enjoying the process. Eventually I will take that next leap. I just don't know how to tell them I have an open marriage without sounding like I am just after sex with them...As of now, I like...
  10. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    If your bf became single and wanted even more of your time, would that be a good thing? Does you bf have any other potential gfs? For me, I think as soon as one relationship developed, it would give me the confidence to expand my horizons. Since we signed our open marriage contract, my...
  11. Smiles

    open or poly?

    Our mutual friend... Actually, the mother our daughters friend, the one who witnessed our open marriage contract is reading Sex At Dawn...She said their MC recommended the book...I didn't think a MC would do that... I don't know if our open marriage conversation was discussed with her MC or...
  12. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    What I find interesting is that now that I am building friendships with women, my wife seems to be more attracted to me. Not that our marriage is falling apart, because it isn't. What I realize is that I am definitely not a player. Any relationship will be more on an emotional level, or one...
  13. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    I have read the book. I've read many books. My wife's love languages are acts of service and quality time. I love to cook and I love spending time with my wife. I also like a clean home. I am definitely not afraid of the vacuum cleaner and laundry. I do that all the time. My wife is very...
  14. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    Several months back, I wanted to see what I was capable of. In a two-week period, we had sex 12 times. That was way more than she could handle.
  15. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    Money is part of it. My wife has been a SAHM for 10 years. I think if my wife had her own income, it would empower her. Maybe not depend on me so much... I like all the points you made. No need to apologize.
  16. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    I have a lot of freedom. My wife doesn't control all my activities. Work hard, play hard, that's me. I like to get out now and meet people. I have changed so much over this past year. I am developing new friendships and having fun. I no longer make my wife responsible for my happiness. My wife...
  17. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    Divorce is very hard on everybody, especially if children are involved. I have a friend who recently divorced. It started off pleasantly. They divided up assets, and both were in agreement. Then the wife talked to a lawyer on the advice of a friend. It all went to hell from then on. I don't...
  18. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    I am very affectionate. I feel I have so much love to give. My wife doesn't exactly pull away. She just doesn't initiate affection. I can easily see myself falling head-over-heels for a woman. I think if I had a relationship, I feel my wife would pull away, as well. I don't know what she would...
  19. Smiles

    partners marriage trouble

    My wife is, without a doubt, my best friend. I enjoy my time with her and the time we spend as a family. Most people who know us tell us we seem to have a great marriage. From their perspective, we do. After 10 years of being SAHM, she is going back to work. There is no way she can function on...
  20. Smiles

    The Ethical Slut.....Got to Get it!

    My wife was a virgin at 25 when we met. I wasn't too far behind that. We are flirting with the idea of an open marriage. More for me... For those with an open or poly relationship, has it made the marriage stronger? If the marriage was dull in the bedroom, did another partner teach you new...
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