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Hi Chesterwalnut, I'm sorry you're struggling. As another mono (so far) with my partner's other relationship becoming more entrenched, and a history of some measure of codependence with my partner, I'd say one thing that helps a lot is establishing my own independence. Having a mutual...

Hello Bunny, I am also new to poly and in a similar position to yours, so I fully sympathise. My partner has formed an intimate attachment with another woman during the past few months and it's been a very painful experience. I've also gone through phases of not wanting to be with him, feeling...

Al, Kevin, Thank you for your welcome. :) Al, your own posts about your venture into poly – the reading, thinking, structured approach – were very inspirational. I also happen to like Heinlein very much. I read Glory Road in my early teens, absolutely loved it; followed it with Stranger in a...

Hello, everyone! I've been lurking and reading in this forum for a while, and I've found the discussions and your input very helpful. Reading about poly troubles and challenges helped me normalise what I am going through currently: I'm in a long-term relationship that opened up during the last...