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The Visit So Far So far Thor has been here for six days, and it has been great. Bucky nor Thor have felt any jealousy so far, in fact I think there has been a fair bit of compersion going on. Thor has been hearing about Bucky and I as a couple for years, now he has finally got a chance to see...

It's hard to believe but Bucky has been home for a week already. Having him home has been a bit strange (for both of us) but great for the most part. He asked a lot of questions about the house, and I wasn't exactly annoyed, but I felt like it was information that he should know. He pointed...

Bucky I feel like I have talked a quite a bit about things between myself and Thor, but Bucky will be home in two days! So I figured I should talk about that a bit. Bucky has been on a deployment for the last six months and eighteen days. While he has had to spend time away from home before...

Just Some Musing Another week down, and this one went fairly well. I was given a lot of good advice on how to handle long distance relationships, and it has paid off so far. Thor and I were able to get through the week with less misunderstandings, and had some fun trying a few new things...

Thank you! I think we are going to try to do a bit more of the mundane stuff. We do that a bit, but a little more if it won't hurt. That going to see the movie at the same time idea is really interesting. We might have to try that sometime.

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! This is incredibly helpful. I had my bf read it as well and we talked about it a little bit. We both especially found the last paragraph helpful. We will definitely both be using some of the tools here.

Yeah I think we are going to have to cling to the knowledge that we have a plan for him to move in. We are both trying really hard to work on our communication, hopefully we are able to weather it without too much trouble. Thank you. We did discover that when we are having a problem we...

This isn't quite poly specific, but have noticed a lot of poly people seem to be in long distance relationships, so I'm curious to know how you all cope with being apart? Thor and I were in a LDR about seven years ago and it ended for several reasons, all stemming from the fact that we were...

Thanks for the reply! Being apart has been pretty rough on all of us, but hopefully things will feel a little better when Bucky gets back. He has been gone over six months now and that is just WAY too long to be apart for me. Buck and Thor have been going on about MTG, and making plans, and...

Ups and Downs I has been another week full of ups and downs for the three of us. Bucky, is still doing great with the whole poly thing. His trouble is with his work and being away for so long. He just keeps getting more and more bad news, and is growing more and more frustrated with his job...

Rocky Week This week has been really rough. Bucky found out his date to come home and its later than all of us had hoped. I was already starting to have a bit of a hard time with that because the closer it gets to him coming home the harder time I have, but the fact that its farther away then...

Put on your reading glasses, and grab something to drink, this is going to be a long post. First off, I made an intro thread here http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=76154 but I am going to get a little more in depth. I'm RocketR, I'm a 25 year old woman and I'm still...

Thanks so much for the greeting. Thor is still here (he is staying for about a week) and it has been so great having him around. After a few first night jitters we were able to get pretty comfortable with each other. Admittedly it was a little strange sharing the house again after spending so...

Thank you, I have skimmed through some of those links since I have been lurking. Bucky is a pretty awesome guy. I'm still marveling at how well he has taken everything. At some point he mentioned that he probably isn't going to go looking for any partners, and that a good bromance is what he...

Hello all, I've been lurking around for about a month and finally decided I wanted to introduce myself. I'm Rocket, a 25 year old woman who just discovered the concept of Polyamory about two months ago. I stumbled upon it really, from an article and the whole thing blew my mind. I had never...