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Although I am not interested in a relationship at the moment, there is a slight possibility I may be interested in one in the future. I call myself poly because I believe that is the orientation that I will accept from my possible girlfriend. So the reference to myself as poly is primarily...

When you come out of the closet to potential partners who continue to practice monogamy, why do many of them express monogamy as a virtue rather than a preference? Why do they believe since they don't have sex with other people they are giving 100% in their relationship while we are giving a...

Does NRE deceive a primary partner that they are in love with their new lover and falling out of love with the other primary partner? For instance, suppose the sex and romance with the new partner is initially spicy, hot and exciting while the romance/sex in the primary relationship is at the...

In a podcast, Franklin Veaux talked about his former partner forbidding him to date a specific person. It made me ponder whether this is a ethical boundary in poly. Why would your partner forbid you from dating a specific person? Is it simply based on jealousy/envy or is there something more...

Are any of you in a friendship where your friend morally disagrees with poly and regularly have heated debates concerning monogamy and polyamory. I would love to read your experiences. Personally, I think it is extremely difficult to have a platonic relationship with someone who strongly...

Hello I am kind of a ironic first time member to the poly forum. I happen to be a virgin who is far more interested in defending polyamorous behavior than being in a polyamorous relationship. The topic of sexual jealousy fascinates me. It is something that I obsess over from a philosophical...