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Hi Meera! I have to admit, I got the most emotional reading your post. ❤️😭 Thank you for sharing your own experiences with me, and for your sound advice! ❤️ I feel like we’ve had similar experiences, but there is a positive outlook that makes me feel like I’ll be ok, no matter the outcome. I...

Hi Inaniel, Yeah that’s what I’m most afraid of, and you’re right, I’m now in no position to date and find a healthy relationship. I’m hoping that after all these years, we can get through this like we have in the past. And to be clear, she’s not being mean or critical of me, just super aloof...

Hi Magdlyn! Thank you 😭 I’m really trying hard to make this work, so it’s nice to hear that it’s a common struggle. Sometimes I forget it’s only been 6 months, and you’re right, it definitely has NRE. I’m really hoping I can weather the storm, take the opportunity to work on myself, and try to...

Hi Kevin! I agree, it feels very conflicting. It’s upsetting too because I don’t think she’s doing it on purpose, and she’s just blissfully unaware of the pain it’s causing, even when I try to talk about it. It may be time to move on. Thank you for being so honest, and for the advice about...

Thank you everyone for the strong support! It’s making me so emotional and I’m happy I put myself out there 😭😭. I was terrified and what would happen, but I have a ton of food for thought and I’ll be replying to you all shortly.

TLDR: My wife’s new partner is everything she dreams of and for the first time in 15 years, I’m seriously considering divorce, and I’m devastated. Hi everyone! My wife and I are coming up on our 10-year anniversary and I’m not sure I’m going to make it. We’ve been together for 15 years now...