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@Tinwen well to be honest i can act jelaous. Although the root of it is the first incident i mentioned which was at year 1 of the relationship, so after that i became sensitised to this kind of things. She also has some gay friends (100% gay) who like to grope and kiss all of the girls from the...

@GalaGirl I think she denied the thing because she snapped out of the crush and thinks it would make more harm than good to admit that she fell for another guy. This would be consistent with her way of thinking. Maybe she thinks it would hurt me if i knew for certain. Or maybe she feels guilty...

@Gala Girl You are very very very helpful. I am a slow learner though but I learn through discussion and opposing views. You are absolutely right about the blame game and we did have a talk yesterday where i apologised for placing so much blame and somewhat exaggerated claims about her being...

@Tinwen I think my problem is that when we started dating after the first few months she started communicating and socialising again with her ex love interest and at first lied about the character of their past relationship. She at first said they were nothing but friends, and later admitted...

Yes I see what you mean, and at the risk of sounding selfish and hypocrite I have to ask this question to a third party- isn't my crush more justified since it happened during a life or death situation, and her during a study period for the exam. Although I have to admit it is a very very...

I see what you are getting at. What troubles me is that crush came exactly at a time when I was away with my father during one of his toughest and most dangerous phases of treatment. So I kind of feel betrayed

No, her crush was much more recent than these talks I think and she wasn't particularly hostile to it, just against it. What I am wondering here is if she crossed the line of emotional infidelity by not stopping the crush on time before it went full-blown or by not stopping inappropriate...

ok, so an update: I processed things through and I realized that my gf was not so unsupportive after all, she listened to me and provided emotional and physical comfort even though she sometimes lashed out, but I believe she did this to make me snap out of it not understanding it can be...

@Fallen I see what you mean. But my reasoning was to first try to determine if the feeling of love for either was genuine. Because if i would realize that one or both is not that would make a decision how to proceed much easier. It is the hardest to choose between two positive things.. @Kdt...

Wow again incredibly insightful! Btw what is "dx"? Do you think i should try to stay friends with this girl? And try reducing the romantic and sexual innuendo? Is this even possible?

Mi Pe Wertzyville First of all for thanks for a very insightful answer! My dad is fortunately still alive and fighting, but I am nevertheless absorbed with this. While I see what you are saying about a crush potentiated by this whole situation (and I did at times myself feel like this crush...

So to make a long story as short as possible: I met my girlfriend 6 years ago...up until then I was in a yes-no-maybe place with one of her acquintaces who I was madly infatuated with but i got sick of the push and pull and gave up on it and in the same time I met my current girlfriend who...