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  1. J

    Poly Nightmare

    I just wanted to post a quick update. I did talk to K about all of this, and what KC43 said really hit home. How he wasn't really taking ownership of his feelings, and how he wasn't standing up for our relationship. So he talked to her and told her how much I meant to her, and she listened...
  2. J

    Poly Nightmare

    yes, I get the point that she's being possessive, which isn't a very good emotion, as has been brought to my attention many times over the years. We don't own people. When I did live on my own, closer to him, it didn't work. She faught against him for his time. When I did move in, I was...
  3. J

    Poly Nightmare

    In all fairness, she invited me to live in her house in the first place. I was hesitant and she actually talked to me about it and told me she wanted me here. I didn't just move in against her will.
  4. J

    Poly Nightmare

    If I move back to the city it's likely going to be the end of our relationship. I can't see me seeing him once a week for just a couple of hours is going to make me happy. That was the whole point of me moving out here. We missed each other so much when we were apart. Just the stress of all...
  5. J

    Poly Nightmare

    I did leave once, for 9 days, after a big blow up where she actually said the divorce word and took off out of the house crying. This was over a conversation where I didn't want to be kept a secret anymore. Just because it doesn't feel natural to have to hide who I am. He doesn't care, he's...
  6. J

    Poly Nightmare

    Hi everyone, I'm sure that I'm beating a dead horse, but I'm the kind of person that fights for what I want and for someone I love. I feel like I'm the only one fighting and I'm giving it one last go, but I'm running out of ideas, and I'm hoping maybe someone can offer some suggestions. I've...
  7. J

    New and Confused

    Hi Everyone, I am fairly new to the polyamory lifestyle. I've been seeing this guy, K, for almost 7 months now. Originally it started as a long(ish) distance relationship. We lived over an hour away from each other and would get to see each other once a week. I have recently moved closer...
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