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Yes exactly and now she doesn't have the flight option because she doesn't want to leave our kids. She's actually left us more than a few times and the one time I didn't try to stop her as I didn't want to be controlling. She was very upset with me and led to much more fighting. She's...

Thanks Kevin. She tells me when things are good she only wants to be with me and can't picture herself with anyone else. But when things are bad (not because I'm bad but this is not how she pictured life to be like) she wants an escape. Her natural tendency is to run away from conflicts and stress.

Thank you everyone. I'm obviously on the wrong message board as I don't think our issues are related to this lifestyle. Hope you all the best and again thank you everyone for your time.

I thought there are different types of Polyamory and is an umbrella term for non monogamy. Isn't swinging a type of Polyamory? Sorry I'm not well versed in how to label our sexual preferences.

This is not my rule. This is her rule. She does not want to be with someone else that thinks it will lead to something other than sex. I say our rule because I'm just used to saying us but it's her rule entirely. Anytime she talks to someone who seems to be more than smitten she ends the...

Any external partner outside us would need to comply with what we feel comfortable with first. That is our rule. At the end of it all. I'm just not OK with her seeking other sexual relationships. She says she can't be monogamous forever because I agreed to non monogamy and now she feels tricked...

In all honesty I think she really connected sexually with one guy in her past that she cheated on me with. To her it wasn't cheating because we broke up before any sex happened but for me it was because she was just breaking up with me so she could go have sex this guy. Anyways the guy left her...

I am currently in a relationship with someone who is loosely poly (sex only, no emotional attachment). I am the one that is resistant. Here's what I have been going thru: DADT does not work because your husband will just imagine the worst but knowing will also make your husband jealous. It's...

Thanks for the reply Tenk. She doesn't have another partner she just wants to have the freedom to have sex with someone else if she meets someone she connects with or just to take risks. She says she missed out on being single in her 20s because she's been with me the whole time and I didn't...

So long story short. My wife and I have been together 10 years. We started out monogamous. Then we started talking about non monogamy about 5 or 6 years in. As I also do not believe in monogamy it seemed great. Now we are actually in an open marriage and I hate it. We had differing ideas of what...