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I like the idea of NOT labeling.

Wait! I never asked him not to introduce me as his girlfriend. It was assumed in the beginning of our relationship that we were FWBs only, but it evolved into more. My BF is the one holding back from introducing me as more than a friend. He is concerned about other people making judgements...

Discretion is part of what's holding him back. Originally, we'd agreed that we would not go out locally, if at all. And, if we did happen to go out, we would present as friends only. That just didn't work. We both enjoy life so much that we want to do things together, and we both enjoy each...

Thanks so much!! Definitely a way to work this! Much appreciated!

Ok! Thanks for the info! lol

I'm jumping the gun a bit since I'm not yet entirely sure that my boyfriend will be able to come to terms with the relationship... but I'm wondering how do those in a poly relationship handle time constraints? As a wife and mother of three under 15, free time is minimal. I want to be able to...

Thank you, Redpepper. I think you may have hit the nail on the head. My boyfriend does indeed love me. I can see it in his eyes when he looks at me and in his face when he is struggling to understand our relationship. He has said that his "special someone" is someone exactly like me. But I...

Thanks so much for responding. I posed the one point you made to him prior to this: "Why can't I be your forever?" and he just can't seem to get past my marriage.

Good morning. I am thrilled to have found this site, and look forward to learning and understanding more. My second husband and I have been married for three years. We have four kids, ages 21-10. We "opened" our marriage to others about two years ago. Originally it was the two of us enjoying...