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I do not have a pic of myself on OK Cupid so i am pretty surprised that i still get these types of messages. If i was a guy i would so not message me because of that reason alone.

Thank you! you are very correct! I also need to make sure that i am direct and not lead anyone into thinking something other than what i am looking for. I have gotten a few guys interested in why i am poly and even though it has not lead to anything i am glad its been a change of pace.

I am a prude too!! A prude that loves sex... ha is that even a thing. I just am not into the whole sending of naked pictures. I don't even send them to my "husband" and we have been together for 15 years. I will talk sexy with someone i am serious with but someone that sends me a message online...

Thank you for the reply. I am starting to think it might really not be the place for me but for now i am going to keep it up just to see what is out there. I personally would like to just meet someone outside of the online world but i guess i would have to leave the house to do that ;) (I do...

Yes! exactly. I don't care for NSA sex but no interest in marriage. I guess I would say i am pretty complex. that must be very confusing for people that are not poly.

Thank you!! That is a really good idea.

I haven't posted in a very very long time. I was in a pretty good relashionship and it ended suddenly and no so great I might add so I just stopped looking for a few years. Anyway back to the future. Rejoined okcupid. Why is it you say you are poly online and guys assume you are a swinger and...

Modesto area. The circles are here are pretty conservative. Heck 90% of my Facebook friends are (mostly cousins and friends from school)

I also live in Cali and you would think it's more open but sadly it's not. I live an hour away from San Francisco and it's like a totally different world. Very opposite of sf. I wish I lived in a town that was more poly friendly. Here an open women like my self looking for a boyfriend outside of...

I would just slow down on the sharing. It might not be who you are with but instead it's what you are saying to the other person that is bothering them. Here is my take on it. Hubby and I are very different when it comes to things. I support him in everything he decides to do with his life...

I could have put I don't know but that doesn't really explain my way of thinking. I hope and believe there is an energy that connects us. Is that a "god" no not really but god is really just a word so I guess it could be. I really do hope there is an after life. Does it matter if it's true or...

I do not mind at all! :) I have given up at the moment, until I move, or just happen to meet someone. I commute 45 min to work everyday and live near no one. I plan on moving about 10 min from work next year, or sooner, maybe. So I think when that happens I can try and become active in that...

I really enjoyed reading your disscusions. And if I may I would like to put my own two cents in on consent. To me consent is just a word. It really has no meaning other being justifed to make someone feel better about their choices. Giving consent means you are allowing the other person to do...

Well I didn't know what the term for myself was until recently but I have been poly or at least known since young. Like young young. But I have been living on my own since late teens 1st apt at 16) in the 90's it wasn't weird. Introducing? Hmm I just did it. My first marriage we just lived...

So I went on OKCupid. That was interesting and lasted a whole 48 hours. I have disabled it and will probably put it back up later. Reason why I took it down-- I was inundated with single men looking to hook up. Not that it's not flattering, just wasn't what I was looking for. I did put right on...

Thanks for the review. Around here on Tuesdays it's $5 movie days so I try to see movies that I am interested in but not 100% sure on. But now I think I will go and see that movie. As you I am not a fan of overly done cgi.

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Finding like-minded people Hi Everyone, A little update before I ask my question: M and I are still trying to find how to make friendship/roommates work. I'm still very unsure on it, but I think it will be workable one way or another. He wants the don't ask don't tell. OK, fine by me. My...

You are from northern Cali. I am from northern Cali too! I have been poly forever. My husband/partner (not really primary) is new to it but is very happy going this way. If you have any questions please feel free to write back or message. At first we had a bumpy road but now we talked...

Hi Nice to see another Californian on here. So far I have not come across many. I'm from northern Cali. Are you North or south california?