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    Looking for Advice

    Hi, thanks for the response. So I haven't done anything I'm aware of to pressure this person, I've just suggested it and said to my partner it'd be nice. I'm not sure about our partner though and what conversations have been had. I did offer to not come to the event that my partner organised...
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    Why and how did you get into poly?

    I don't have a huge amount of dating experience, as I've spent a lot of my life with bad mental health, substance use issues and with the fact that it took me coming out as transgender and changing my body to feel OK enough with it.It's only been since 2014 that I've been dating and I'm in my...
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    Looking for Advice

    Can't see my response and I think I misread... So apologies... J is against hierarchies in relationships, or so they say. I'm not sure about S. I think S is newer to polyamoury than J or I. They have several other partners, but I'm not sure of how they do things because we don't know each other...
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    Looking for Advice

    Also, people please feel free to roast me on this if I'm being unreasonable or selfish... I'm very open to criticism. I ultimately want things to be OK and to share spaces and not have this specific issue (I know J hangs out with S and their partners sometimes, but then maybe that just works...
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    Looking for Advice

    There was, yes. It's something they say they'll work on (communication and time keeping) Yeah, I guess they are... But I'm not sure what to or if there's anything I can do other than maybe just deal with it and ignore it, whilst trying to be accountable for things I might have done. But I...
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    Looking for Advice

    J has also stated from the beginning that they're non hierarchical. I think S is in theory? I'm not sure... They don't seem comfortable talking to me and we haven't gotten past small talk. Nobody has mentioned a specific action. It all started when I put a photo of me and J online and S...
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    Looking for Advice

    Hey there... So I'm putting some words down and just looking for feedback, or advice if possible. I've been with a person (J) for almost a year and they have another person (S) who they started seeing a month before me (when we got together I stated I'm not in to hierarchical polyamoury)...
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    Hi

    Just dropping a hello from the UK! I'm a thirty something trans person from the UK. I take a lot from relationship anarchy and solo polyamoury. I like animals, nature, I'm a feminist and a lefty type human. Not sure what else to type... But hope you're all having a great day.
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