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Zed and I met Dylan Moran on our honeymoon a couple of years ago! He's such a nice fellow!

I'm doing wonderful, however slightly overwhelmed. Zed and I just signed a lease on a new house. We had to get out of our current house because of neighborhood safety issues. We've had a handful of things happen and then about 3 weeks ago a neighbor pulled a gun on Dean and I over parking...

Lots of new lessons learned and grounds broken as of late. Zed and I have spent a lot of time with Pixie and Dean as of late. Both in group and private date/switch nights. The only thing remotely worrying is how good things are going. We all seem to grow closer as the days pass and with every...

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Pixie was discussing these things more out of concern for Dean. She and I are very close and she knows that I care deeply for him and want to know what's going on. She knows he won't come to me with these anxieties for the exact reasons you mentioned: they are his to work through. When I...

I'm feeling pretty fucking incredible. Spent Thursday night with Cuba. Got to feel out our public dynamic a little bit, which came super naturally. He fell right into boyfriend mode perfectly without me even asking any questions. We ended up sleeping together for the first time and it was...

That sounds quite annoying for someone that doesn't know you that well.

I don't have to be drunk. It was simply that one occasion. We've seen each other and talked extensively since then about things daily and how we feel. Edit: I had made that decision prior to the 4 bottles of wine. I guess I should have made that clear.

I'm doing....quite well. Eerily well. Scary well. My life has become quite interesting lately. Going to see Cuba Thursday. Zed is doing his show and meeting Pixie and I there with two other comics that we got on the bill for him. ^_^ It's going to be quite a night and I will likely end up...

Hey, I would read it. :)

So, after some really deep discussion with all parties involved (Zed, Pixie, AND Cuba), I decided to give Dean another (more proper) chance. We all killed 4 bottles of wine together the other night, the tension got the better of me, and I planted one on him. He still seems so enthralled by me...

mmmm, I've been positively confused and now i dont know what to do with myself. ugh. *facepalm*

I find this very interesting. You all and Zed are the only ones I've told who feel like I should give Dean a chance. Of course, most of the other people are not poly, but I digress. Maybe it's because I'm new to poly or maybe I'm just stubborn, but I feel a particular drive in my life where I...

My husband and I became poly about 6 months ago. It's been an interesting journey. In short, Pixie and Dean was the first couple we talked to there in the very beginning. Over the course of 4 weeks we were all advancing a relationship up until people felt too much pressure and our friendships...

I also drew this for Cuba for his birthday. :)

Being poly can get really confusing and overwhelming really quickly... As I have explained previously, my focus has been primarily on Cuba. I like Cuba a ton and feel that what we have is wonderfully fulfilling and completely worth riding out, even if the distance makes things a little...

Really drained today... Dean made it clear today (if his interaction with me already didnt) that he still wants something more. Trying to be very careful in not leading him on but continuing letting the friendship develop. My focus right now is developing things with Cuba. I like him a ton...

It sounds like someone needs to start being more direct. In this position I would likely try and tactfully approach her to find out what that "it doesn't exist" mean. It's that kind of vague communication that really messes things up.

It seems to me like you're taking the appropriate steps and are on the right track for more happiness for both of you. I hope Klaire begins reciprocating some of the work as these steps will lead to more happiness for herself even if it's just resting easy knowing that she understands what is...

I agree totally on the cheating front, BUT I wouldn't say I was BORN bi, although I'm sure plenty of people are, as you seem to identify as far back as you remember. I would say my capability to love someone regardless of their gender was learned over time via experience. I've always found...