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To me? You and wife basically broke up the marriage. The old marriage agreements? They are gone. I'm going with ish on this one, yah we realize the old idea is done, but not forgotten. We both put our jobs as parents above everything else. Concerning the kids we are a family first, and as...

Hey thanks for the comments, sorry I see where I wasn't clear. I helped my wife buy stuff for her gf, no sex toys, her gf bought her a sex toy. I helped her pick other stuff, glasses, candles, her kids watercolor kit, etc. stuff like that. Honestly tho, I would have no problem helping her pick...

Yah, I'm really not sure how all this is suppose to work. My wife and I like to do things together. Usually not shopping but tis the season, so we would discuss her gift ideas for her gf and i'd give my opinions for her to take or leave. This is how my wife and I do things, now I'm pretty sure...

Yah I know, and you're right. I guess it's just their relationship doesn't feel like two weeks in. Sex toys for Christmas gifts. Spending a decent amount of time sleeping over. Just feels more like they're in month two of their relationship lol

Thank you for the clear explanation, and yah I was strictly thinking theoretically. I have no interest in actually doing anything. Do you have any opinion about what style works best? I have no experience but it would seem that parallel poly would be harder for long term relationships and...

Thank you for the explanation :) I'm still new to these terms. If you wouldn't mind could you tell me why your preference is against the "Borg collective " grin. I really don't have enough experience with this to have a good opinion. From your experience what are the pro cons of kitchen...

Hey, little bit of s miscommunication. They've been "dating two weeks " they've been friends .. about a year or so. Going out to concerts, grabbing lunch here and there. So not really close friends but friends. My wife had known her kids long before anything was going on. I just never...

I ment safer like more secure, my wife thinks she just needs more time for her to see that it can work. I think she's in the process of figuring out if it's against her grain, but yah time will tell. You know, It's not in the for real shady, we all know about each other and my wife is pretty...

I don't need to be present, it was more of, making it easier on them. Two small kids are a handful so the idea was we could all hang out then they could leave and I'd have the kids. but there isn't any reason I couldn't just show up when they where done and take over. Just feels .. a little...

I think you're right with the main problem being her uncertainty of dating a married women at all. My wife said that she would have no problem meeting me.. she doesn't have anything against me, but my wife thinks it would just cause the end of their relationship. My wife said She would meet me...

Thanks for the advice, I'll talk with my wife about the txting thing. I can't help but wonder about the part of us not being friends. We have two small kids and my wifes gf has two teenage kids. I'm concerned that if we can't find ways to overlap these two relationships more there just isn't...

Hello all, I have quick question. My wife recently got a girlfriend, we're about two weeks in and I haven't met her yet. She knows about me, but she's not sure she wants to date a married women so my wife is trying to "protect" their new relationship and hopes that we'll be able to meet after...

Hey all, am I in the right place? lol I'm not sure if what we're doing is poly or open marriage or something else. My wife will be free to have relationships with other women outside of our marriage. To be clear, I'm not looking to make it a three person relationship. Two separate relationships...