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Welcome to the group. This forum has been a blessing for me. A great way to share and vent. Enjoy your new life.

Welcome. You know your friend is closed so there is no since is saying you have a crush. Some things you just have to accept. I am closed so I understand. I would not be flirty as I would not want to lead someone on. I would hope he could give you some inside on poly. He is not rejecting...

All done. First time as a Youngen. Touching down yonder. Gee that feels good. Went from there. Folks taught it was sinful.

Welcome. Jump in and enjoy the board.

Howdy and Welcome. Jump right in. As soon as you have it figured out, something will happen. Never fails. Kinda keeps it interesting.

Look up Collettes Austin. They have a poly night.

Howdy Austin. Corsicana here. Here the pandemic had minimal impact. We stayed within our group with very occasional ventures outside of it. Those ventures were vanilla. SW and I had covid very early on and carry antibodies. Ewe had covid 3 months later. It was just part of life. As far...

What you describe is great. Glad the jealously bug didn’t visit. It is a great feeling.

Welcome. Poly can be awesome. Most here have a bad story to share. We also have successes to share. Sounds like she used poly as an excuse for her behavior. It sucks when you make such an investment and the partner craps all over you. I encourage you to let go. Appreciate that you...

Howdy from Texas as well. Glad you are finding this group.

Welcome. Jump in and participate. You will find great folks here.

Welcome. Great folks here. Ask questions and just jump in.

SW and I were in a poly with Ewe and her husband. He emotionally trashed SW and she nutted it. He emotionally trashed Ewe. SW and I supported her. I stood by her. He encouraged Ewe and I to stick it out. Ewe offered to go to counseling. They divorced. For her, looking back, she should have...

It is hard making decisions like this. You will always have a place among this group. I wish you well.

She asked. I responded honestly. I took responsibility. Didn’t make an effort to deflect. She showed grace. I showed I failed her.

The only way to rebuild trust after an affair is for the violator to own what they did. You owned p going into his phone, it doesn’t sound like he has owned anything. I cheated on SW. she demonstrated a great deal of grace. That, along with my ownership of my screwup allowed us to rebuild. I...

Relationship with Ewe, 1000 miles away, has been a challenge. For the past 16 months, I have gone there or her here for 7-15 days per stretch. Next trip will be the last, she will be 15 miles away. Yes, it is an absolute challenge. We figure we have put 40k or more miles on the two...

Howdy. Is he toxic and gaslighting. Stand your ground and don’t apologize unless something is really your problem. While my phone is open to my wife and vice versa, we honor each other with privacy. If one of us has a question, we ask. We talk a great deal.

Welcome. It can be daunting to wrap your head around that you are not being replaced. Keep talking with each other. While I love my girlfriend, I also love my wife. I don’t want to loose either. You are not alone. Many have and are still going through the same things you are. Jump in and...

Jealously comes and goes. How long for you or me is really not an issue. It is so different for each one of us. Just talk. Work through things and talk done more.