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Welcome. We tried the swing thing and found it lacking. Yes thertywss fun, but….. I now have a girlfriend and my wife is looking fir a boyfriend. I wish you the best.

Howdy and welcome. Look around and enjoy. Lots of folks that care and will share ideas. I wish you the best.

Welcome to the group. Folks here care and have had many interesting experiences. Take what helps and discard the rest. Jump in and be active in discussion.

Welcome and sorry for the issues they created. As you can see from all of the folks above, this was NOT your failure. They sprung this on you under the guise of love. Then use drugs to get you more “relaxed”. Ghosting sucks. It is usually because the party can not handle reality and deal with...

Welcome. It sounds like you are participating in swinging more than poly. No problem with that. There are so many different definitions that it makes your head spin. My wife and I participated in swinging for a while. Then I developed a relationship with another and while we still were...

More than two - nice info to consider Jealousy a poly workbook - good for anyone Devine Sex by Phylo Thelos for some religious views

Sorry, I’m a little slow sometimes. I missed the 10 o’clock. Nothing is more important than communication. Communication can cause problems as much as it can prevent problems.I think it’s just time for a chat, and not make a big deal out of it for either of them.

Howdy. I am confused by all. Y came home at 1030. Well before the 1100 “curfew”. If Z wants Y to be there at a specific time, then establish one. If not don’t get upset.

Welcome to the board. There are a number of books out there. Do lots of reading so that you can decide what will work for you. Much of the reading has info that would be good for mono folks to consider. For me it has been an interesting journey, very blessed.

Welcome. I agree with what Mag says. I’ve played the swinging think. For me as well as SW it was empty. The transition to poly has been awesome.

Welcome. Lots to to see here. Lots of great folks.

You heard the response. Now get tested, as she violated the agreement. Then run. She will never be better than she is now.

Welcome to the joys and struggles. Stick with it and work out the issues. You have joined an interesting group.

Welcome. Advice.....question all of it. Just because it works for me doesn’t mean it will for you. Read, ask questions and learn about jealousy. Poly has been awesome for me. Getting better for my wife. It is interesting, stressful, rewarding, and fun.

This is much better than a veto. I kinda keep in touch with a former partner. Our relationship was vetoed by her husband after almost a year. It has been very hard for both of us even after over a yr since the veto. Teach and I were working toward an end o our relationship. If we could have...

I would rather be blunt and folks know where I stand than have them question my position

Driver was a very controlling meta. Finally he vetoed my relationship with Teach. It was fir the best. We still love each other, have very limited communication. But sadly, no relationship. Looking back, the reduction in stress for Teach and I, it is all for the best.

Welcome. I have two relationships. I have no desire for more. The two are amazing. Do your relationships the way you want. You need to be comfortable. Enjoy you time here.

Welcome. With him flirting with employees, having any for of sexual relationship with any employee, puts the whole shebang up for grabs. Lawsuit for sexual harassment, stalking and toxic work environment just for starters. His first mistake was going behind your back. His second was playing in...

Welcome. It is not easy finding the one that will satisfy the two. Much easier for each to find one. I have a wife and a girlfriend. While they are good friends, they do not interact sexually. Lurk, ask and enjoy.