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Welcome. This is a great group that is willing to share experiences. Jump in and participate. Poly takes work, but the experience is awesome.

Welcome. Talk openly with your wife. There are a number of books out there that both of you can read. It is important to be very open to your wife’s input. This venue would be a great place for both of you to read and post. Separately of course.

Welcome. This is a great venue to jump in and share. I thing you will experience some great varied views.

I understand that type of loss. It is hard to deal with. Hopefully, your fiancé understands it is a friend level. It is difficult position to be in.

It took guts to have the talk. It will be important to continue talking, in my case 37 yrs of talking. Only you can decide what is best for you, not any of us. Evaluate the pros and cons. If you feel that the stability is what you need, latch on and don’t look back. If you feel that you...

Welcome. It is important to be honest where you are. Pushing her to make a profile is not being honest with yourself. There are potential consequences that must be evaluated be for action like that is taken. Now you are dealing with an avalanche of emotions. Be honest with her. That is a good...

We went to a Ren Faire. O holding my left had was Ewe. Holding my right hand was SW. another participant yelled “Man, you are one lucky guy”. Ok, kinda. Twice the chance to piss one of them off. Twice the chance to make one angry. Twice the chance to offend someone. It is never about...

My wife and I came from the swinging environment. That is how I encountered Ewe. I departed the swinging scene and focus on wife and Ewe. That is my way. Wife and Ewe know each other. That for me is a just. They are good friends. My wife has two partners that are technically swing but lean...

Talk. Communication of goals. Honesty. Be open in your discussion. This is not for everyone and that’s ok.

Jealousy is not tamed by having details. It feeds jealousy and demonstrates lack of trust and your insecurities.

While sex is important, commitment to my wife is priority. It is a concept that many don’t understand. I do. mf1430, you are not alone. We o still screw up, we then rebuild. That is life.

Welcome. This sounds like it will be an uphill battle. But, the little engine made it work, hopefully you will as well. Talking with your wife about your needs would be a start. The book “Devine Sex” by Philo Thelos was a great book for my wife to read. We read it together and discussed each...

Well, not new but still confused. That’s not all bad. Welcome. personally I would never mix work and relationships. In this day of sexual harassment, one claim and you are screwed. Yes, I worked for a city. I didn’t play in the business sandbox so there was never the ability to say I was...

I am interested in my partners family and she mine. That is just part of life not to deny. We both are proud of our kids. I talk about my wife, etc. we respect each other’s lives.

SW and I have no issues with the other looking at texts. But, we also respect each other’s privacy so we don’t look. It is a nice combination of willing to share vs respect. If you do not feel the respect is there, exit. It likely will never be.

In our case, I am willing to share with my partners anything they ask. On the flip side, they each respect the other and are willing to give privacy. It is a good combination. While my wife functions more in the swinging arena, I respect her time and activities. we make every effort to not...

Welcome to the forum. Great folks here. I am open to chatting via pm. You have started by acknowledging where you are. Thinks about talking to your wife. Honesty is a must.

Welcome to the group. Poly is not for all. My Ewe has come to the conclusion today that she is not poly. That is the risk that you run. Poly can be rewarding and awesome. It can also be a painful experience. Go slow, read much, ask questions and talk to your potentials. You will find some...

I focus on my partner first. Typically nothing is off limits. Until she is “satisfied” I hold off. That may mean that I do not penetrate until after she has finished.

Stay away from the prostitution thing. Spent time doing stings (cop side). Some good folks get snagged. That said, you are where my wife is. She is looking for a fwb. She is on multiple sites. The profiles are for a couple. It clearly states that I am in an exclusive poly relationship and...