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Welcome. Talk. The most important thing you two can do. What are you looking for? What do you want in a partner? My wife and I have a great relationship. I am in a fixed, exclusive relationship with “Ewe” outside of my marriage. My wife is open to poly or a fwb relationship with another...

Welcome. Being poly is outside what we have been taught is proper. Denial was part of it for us as well. Once we moved bast that things changes. While I am exclusive with SW and my poly partner, SW is not with hers. Two different ways of poly that work within our marriage..

Thinks change. I fell in love with Ewe. My wife fell in love with her husband. He went south and my wife is now solo Poly with my support. I am still with Ewe with wife’s support. Talk can not be over stresses. Be open and honest. It may not go where you want it but honesty is a must.

Welcome. We started out swinging, then moved to poly. Me first then my wife. Sit down and talk. Discuss your feelings, get it all in the open. What are your individual goals. What are his goals. What are your corporate goals. Find a common ground from which to operate. There can be...

When we are going to chat with another partner we give each other space. First we communicate. If we are unable to plan ahead (one of us gets a call) we go in the bedroom and close the door. It is important for us to ensure we are open. This has prevented problems. There are enough obstacles...

I met Ewe through a lifestyle profile where my wife and I met another couple. Ewe and I had a major connection and were blessed by both spouses. We are now in a poly relationship. All of our “meets” our up front. If during daily conversations you can slip in a little statement about poly, your...

Welcome back. Congratulations on your relationships. I am not in the open or closeted either. Currently I am sitting at a Subway with my Girlfriend and my wife is across the table. This forum is a great support for us.

Welcome to the group. Poly is a challenge and takes work. However, I wouldn’t trade it for mono. Enjoy the reads you find. Take in what is good for you and expel the rest.

Welcome. You will find a great deal of support and diversity in this group. Ask lots of questions.

Welcome. It took a while for my wife was able to find someone she clicked with. They are working through some things and we will see how it goes. Set your parameters and stick with it.

Welcome. This is a great resource. Hopefully, you will find what you are looking for.

I am sorry that you are going through this. GG has always had super input. I like to use “operational definition” for the words we use. It takes work on everyone’s part. There are just too many ways to say the same thing. Keep yourself solid. Have faith in your thoughts and ideals. First...

Gunslinger is currently going through “The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships”. This has been a good book for SW and I. Gunslinger seems to be doing well in his processing. Closure is awesome. For me, it will never come. I just have to accept reality.

Welcome. Losing a relationship can be hard. There a great folks here. My wife was the same way when I lost the first relationship. I understand. She and I have grown.

Welcome. We are near Corsicana. Our Secondaries are visiting for a a couple weeks. Hunting hogs.

It is hard to say what is normal for anyone. What is normal for me. Any relationship I have been in, I have treated as valuable. Typically multiple texts a day, calling in the morning sometime and often in the evening to say goodnight. I am 1018 miles from my secondary(Ewe). We are in touch...

Welcome. It took about 1.5 yrs for my wife to understand poly and to be open to it. During that time, I was in a relationship. Now we both are in relationships. She just needed to be in the right place, right time with the right person.

Sounds like he is a little of a controlling twit. My wife’s partner has a bigger dick. Ok, big deal. She is happy. My partner prefers my size. Ok, big deal. There are some real important issues. Find them first.

Welcome Poly for SW and myself has been awesome. Ups, downs, way down, back to ups. Life with SW Had blossomed. It takes work from all parties enrolled. Enjoy your journey. This is a great group.

Alternate thought As I am in a good solid primary relationship, I would want my secondary to also have that potential. I realize that I can not be her primary. She wants one. I would be happy for her to have a primary even though I may have to exit. I do not own my secondary. I want the...