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In my experience it does the opposite. The time spent together and bed sharing become more intentional instead of being something easy to take advantage of. I miss having my own room because, like you, I can't really relax in the main house when it's quiet and solitude that I need. Sharing a...

So, let me make sure I understand. You are dating your (nesting?) long term partner. You are also dating your new partner who started as a mutual friend/is part of you AND your long term partner's social group. Long term partner has another partner? Or no because you've recently opened so her...

Just be honest. It's fair to feel slighted. He's supposedly working to get to a nonmonogamous space with girlfriend so he can be with you? Yet he's moving that relationship to living together BEFORE they've worked out the issues with nonmonogamy? Nah. Intentional or not, he's on the escalator...

I have been in the worst mood the last couple of days. The holidays approaching often hits me like this. A combination of excitement and sadness. I'm trying to teach the child about the actual history of the holidays and not just the happy "together and thankful" stuff, while still enjoying the...

I agree with mags. Seems like she's giving you what she can/wants to. Sounds like she doesn't really want to be open but doesn't want constant cheating either. So she tries but can't wholeheartedly consent to anyone because reasons (maybe she's not actually bi, maybe she's not actually...

Vee? Triad? Threesome? Open or closed? All possible, some more likely than others. Some more likely to last long term than others. Just depends on the people.

If you remove the E, be prepared for her to never trust you again. 30 minutes a week is honestly plenty if there aren't lots of new people joining the sites regularly. Finding someone that she's attracted to, you're likely to be attracted to, and interested in couples can be really hard...

#polyam seems to be more everyday oriented tiktok from what I've seen. Normal looking humans in various configurements. Nerdy all guy triad. MFM vee with two burly guys and a tiny woman. FMF vee where guy was ripped and gals were overweight (they did a few about his reaction to people seeming...

You're not wrong if you only want relationships that include entangled lives. He's not willing/able to give that to you. If you can come to terms with having a satellite relationship, like one that is "on" when you're together but "off " when you're apart... then you could give it more time...

Aaaannnd vasectomy is canceled. They're so short staffed that all elective procedures are on indefinite hold. Both guys now say another baby would be great. Just when I was over my baby fever. I'm not opposed and finances say it's doable so... we'll see, I guess. I know I'd be excited if it...

I agree there's no mixed signal here. She has always been monogamous, and she's told you that. You are only interested in a nonmonogamous relationship. She COMPROMISES and says ok. Non-mono is fine, but it needs to be equitable. You can fuck around? Then I can too. You agree to not fuck...

Nope. Hubby and Boy don't really communicate unless it's about gifts for me or when we're all hanging out. Any issues are discussed with me since I'm the one they're in a relationship with. If it's something that concerns the other, then I discuss the pertinent details.

My health is getting better! Hubby and I have been good lately too. Then, of course, I have the worst period I've had in years so I felt bloated and crampy and gross for a few days. The really crummy thing is that I get crazy horny too, but the mess isn't worth it for a quickie which is about...

I thought husband WAS getting tested as well, but apparently it's just bf and fleur. I completely agree that husband should be tested as well since his health could impact others.

I was referring to the cheating WITH you previously.

Are you sure this is someone you're going to be compatible with for an ongoing ethical relationship? Engaging in emotional affair, push back on basic health steps, and constantly changing the goal posts add up to a whole lot of no thanks, personally. You're changing the rules of engagement...

I wouldn't give up hope. In my small town, there are quite a few (unlicensed but able) people who are willing to do the labor when people are in real need. The parts themselves always seem so cheap when compared to the labor that others pull together to either give the person in need oddjobs to...

Hubby and I have a similar issue. I do not drive with him in the car unless he's in the backseat so his reactions don't make me anxious. He is statistically a worse driver than me (I've gotten one ticket ever, one wreck caused by me ever, 3 wrecks total. He's had 4ish tickets, totaled 1 car...

1 - yes, absolutely be open about your desired relationship structure from the get go, because that can be an immediate deal breaker for many. 2 - think about what happens if you form a triad and then other two decide they're not into you anymore. Or are into each other more. Or one is super...

I hadn't told my guys, but I'd been thinking about kink and trying to gauge my interest in some things again lately. Then Boy and I had our weekend away (was booked/ paid for months ago and I forgot until reminders popped up on my calendar), and... That man. Omg. He showed up with a freaking...