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Welcome aboard. Yes, it appears the next step is discussing the matter with the couple--and your bf. Wouldn't be cricket to start up with them without figuring out what's going on with him.

And I'll offer up a different view. If my wife were to inquire constantly about that sort of thing, I'd stop talking to her about it altogether. She already knows about most of the ladies in whom I'm interested and already knows most of the times I meet somebody for lunch or dinner or...

Mod Note The avatar used on the PolygamousWU account violated the guidelines. It is expressly forbidden to try to spread propaganda by hate groups in any fashion when posting, and that extends to avatar images. We also found that the IP used is tied to two other accounts, one previously banned...

So, you are , in effect, going to tell her that you think she's gonna molest your children? That will accomplish *what*, exactly? If she doesn't see you and yours very often and doesn't spend any time to speak of with you, then she poses no threat to you or your children. The relatives that...

Some of you may have noticed that I take some delight in sending rude messages to spammers when booting them from the site. It's tedious zapping spammers, yet I get some satisfaction from it. I just zapped 144 spam threads and the spammers who posted them. Your reports help us find more of the...

You just won an award for bad behavior--and the resultant ban.

Hmm. Not all Pagans are witches and not all witches are Pagans, so the terms aren't synonymous. There are Jewish witches and Christian witches and atheist witches. There are lots of Pagans who aren't witches and Pagan religions that don't involve witchcraft. For example, I'm Pagan and not a...

Oh, hell, no! No, folks, showing up here and advocating for incestuous pedophilia is not going to pass muster. No ifs, ands, or buts...I will toss your ass out the door.

The blog board is for blogs about your personal relationships and issues--not a place simply for venting about how you perceive the forum to be. I'm editing your post to remove the venting and leaving the bits that appear to actually be material suitable for a blog. Incidently, posting just to...

It rang a bell with me, too--the author apparently has very little experience with poly folk. I've met very few poly folk who are economically privileged. Predominantly, those without children are young and have put off childbearing or are old enough their children are grown; I certainly...

As this appears to not be an actual blog and seems to be a thread about reading and books, I'm going to move this thread off the blogs board. OP, should you have an argument as to why this should stay, send me a message.

Actually, my point was that you aren't necessarily going to like what others have to say and it is entirely OK that they say it. What BG posted there does not violate guidelines *and is perfectly OK.* That you don't like it is also OK. I suspect that you're conflating "civil" with "nice." The...

A Public Service Announcement I thought this thread was a joke when I first saw it. If it weren't for your history here, I would have suspected trollery. Here's the thing: when you post here, folks are going to react in all sorts of ways to what you offer up. Some of them will comment. Some...

ANd from his point of view, he can say "I can't imagine having, or keeping, a significant other who lacked the self-control and maturity to deal with her own issues and instead tried to control my other relationships." From here, it appears the jealousy isn't the issue, it's the expectation...

I'd certainly voice my concerns. There's obviously a lot of deception going on there, and it appears to be deliberate.

Hmmm...I renamed it when I moved it. Perhaps the system didn't care for two demands from me at the same time.

This is not really the place to be discussing creation of a bdsm household. Although we do have a good many kinky polyfolk here, discussion of the type of household you describe isn't really on topic on these boards. I'll suggest FetLife for this particular discussion.

I'd wave goodbye. They aren't sure when they have time free to spend on sorting out whether the whole thing will stay together? That's a clear signal that they really don't care, in these circumstances.

This. It's his responsibility and nobody else's.

We'll pass that along.