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Hey Kevin & Magdlyn, My poly guy Kile says some days his fingers are shot, & phone calls work. So we are getting to a middle ground, which is perfect. Some moments it feels like it's gaining momentum. I think once we establish a regular person-to-person l will start to feel a bit more secure. I...

Hey, Kevin. I had a chat with him last night about communication and asked about a quick text or call. He said he needed me to reach out and remind him to call me. With his change of scheduling and adjustments to provide me time, he says he is trying. I've been advised to give it a month and...

Hi Kevin & Magdlyn, Thanks. l've checked into Golden Nuggets, and read the resource regarding being a secondary. I never realised there were so many things to consider in growing a polyamory relationship. Appreciate the welcome. Warm regards, Tania

I agree, even a short call would suffice. I am unsure whether to push that point, but it's a feeling that flags, so if l want to play it completely straight it has to be mentioned. Thank you.

Well, today's question about him being a better hinge, as that was the original plan coming from him. He explained that his work load had tripled. That was the reason there was such a long delay in responding via text. I am going to put forward, perhaps a quick text or call to touch base to...

I'm not sure what DADT means. This was in relation to the length of turn-around time when he responded, texting.

I actually don't want to date outside of him, unless l meet someone who l click with. He did say, with the new job, he & the nester were reorganising their schedules to give me proper time.

I was wondering that,, and didn't feel brave enough to ask, but l am not neglecting my needs as l have in the past. The adjustment should have been done before he considered opening up. I am going to be asking him that question, as l want set time with him. Thank you for setting me on the right...

His last day of work with his first job is next week. But he has taken on shift work in community support. Feeling lost.

Thankyou. What's ENM/poly? He had plans to drop one job, looking at polyfidelity? What's DADT? He has no experience with poly accept with this current partner. He would focus on me & she is looking for someone. She does know about me, I've spoken to her briefly. He said this: we limit it to...

I am very new to poly. We've met twice. Amazing energy. He has a main nesting partner & family. Has just two jobs. Resigned from 1. Now adjusting. The turn-around time with texting has increased. I get anxious. He is aware. How should l respond? I want more time with him.