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    Electrons Introduction

    I estimate that she and I see each other 5% of our time - so yes, a comet rel is a good descriptor. When we are together, we are 100% into each other. When we are apart, she's with her #1 and I am out of sight/ out of mind/ on the shelf like a toy. After reading responses to this thread...
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    Electrons Introduction

    Emojis are for in-between IRL dates. . . in person, do have our serious talks and "I don't know what the future will hold" is the outcome every time. This is the dilemma. Who's complaining about a being Mr. Good Time with No Strings? Not I. On the other hand, who's complaining that he...
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    Electrons Introduction

    I don't blame poly for our slow start, it was more a matter of the specific situation . . and yes, "what if" exercise is totally pointless. . . other than to potentially guide decision making in the future. So . . Here's my NRE question, it does not matter whether the couple is poly or mono...
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    Electrons Introduction

    When you put it this way, I can tell for sure that she is not "there" yet . . . and I'm not even sure if she (we) are heading that way. Good thoughts, Thanks.
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    Electrons Introduction

    Kevin, your analysis is spot on as always. Yes, I am feeling she unwittingly denied the both of a lot of love . . I wonder if I there's some anger or resentment buried inside that is driving that? One of the things this experience is bringing to me is a lot of personal, emotional...
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    Electrons Introduction

    Been a few months, so I thought I should post an update about my Poly Hetero, MFM, Heirarchy, Vee, where I'm #2. I'm not totally sold that I am Poly, but rather I'm dating a woman who is the hinge in her Poly scene. Summertime done come and gone . . . and what a glorious summer it was...
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    Electrons Introduction

    From the very outset, hinge had originally stated that #1 had the power to call this all off and she would comply with such request. My being #2 was all very clearly spelled out - mostly to alleviate his insecurity - and I suppose in part to prevent me from thinking things might ever develop...
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    Electrons Introduction

    Is this how it ends? The metamour changes mind about being a Poly couple and this terminates the relationship between the two other people. . . that's a lot of power!? Does this happen often? I've been just a lurker here for several months, reading a lot on all the topics, trying to get an...
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