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There is another reason why Heathcliff is particularly attractive for exploring a V arrangement (however hypothetically) - he is safe. If, as @Evie has put it, Heathcliff is a “yes” - if anyone we know bumped into us on the street, they would not bat an eyelid that our arms are draped around...

Hm, do I think my libido is spiking in general? - no, not particularly. It’s just in a good place at the moment. We had a lovely time with Edgar just before. I think it’s more the reunion and possibly subconscious fear that it will be ages before Heathcliff and I see each other again. It adds an...

oh and no, threesome is definitely NOT on the cards!

Hah! I clearly haven’t thought of it that way. Will mull over. Re: I mentioned that my feelings towards Heathcliff have been changing in the last few years but I last spoke to Edgar before I got the full on lightning strike when I saw Heathcliff. We are on different schedules with Edgar at the...

One more thing about finding another partner - my (mid-sized) town is really a big village, with all the judgemental idiosyncrasies of such. I work for a major employer, Edgar works for another major employer and this sort of thing will come out sooner rather than later. It could make my life...

Yes! I wondered about where best to post. I thought it was a bit too long for the other section. I was happy if my questions were treated as largely rhetorical. I had to write them down to really SEE them for what they are. However, I do appreciate the clear, measured feedback from you and Evie...

Thank you, Evie!!! I really appreciate you taking the time to break it down into understandable anchor points. - Lol! I think I’ve tried to write it down so often, it’s developed a flow. But it’s not a plot, it’s just life :) Just to clarify, there is one thing I forgot to mention when I...

Part 2: Yes, so this discovery that I’m poly was after 15 years of being monogamous, but life had been so busy I never had time to figure these things out in my head until then and I also think, that to do this, I needed some space away from a conservative upbringing. Edgar gave me that (safe)...

I’ve been lurking here for some years and this is yet another attempt to commit my story to writing but I’m not sure I will be brave enough to post, let alone continue as a blog, but maybe it will be helpful, who knows?! I’m 40, hetero female, happily married to a wonderful human, hetero male...