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I discovered Tinder yesterday. I realize now that OK Cupid was a total dead zone. I pulled 60 likes in the first 6 hours. That was a huge ego boost! I'm talking to a new guy who seems pretty cool. He's not poly but we'll see how it goes. Things with Barry have been real chill. We need to hang...

So it's been a slow going couple of days. Spitfire's been really down about ending things with Bashir. She's got full confidence in her decision but she really liked the guy. If she hadn't then she never would have... you know. I don't know how to help her. I'm doing my best to be supportive...

Hey, congrats! 7kg is a lot to lose and it sounds like you're really putting in the effort to get into shape. Everyone keeps reminding me that form is key. I guess you're probably hearing that a lot too. Hope that the workouts can help you with the depression. I find that a good run or a round...

So it was a big weekend for poly in the house. Spitfire finally met up with the first guy she started talking to online. Not really as an active dating thing but more of a hanging out as friends thing. I shall call him Picard as he's a handsome older gentleman who seems to have his shit...

Now that I've pulled my head out of my ass and am looking at your name (Isobela and not Isobelo) I'm assuming your a lady and not a dude. I think my statements still stand and I apologize for the displacement.

Hey! I hear you. I just went through something kind of similar. It's rough. You're kind of happy the deed is done. It's official. You're kind of sad the deed is done. Its official. If I figure out where everything goes from there, I'll try and remember to let you know. A lot of people tell me...

I woke up at 1:30 in the morning. My eyes were still heavy with sleep but my mind was wide awake. I felt very empty. I looked over at Spitfire sleeping soundly, her hand stretched out and open near my pillow. I took it and held it for about half an hour just watching her sleep and whispering...

So yesterday was a pretty good day. We had my daughter's birthday party. We invited a small number of children that she has regular contact with and staggered everyone throughout the day. I was quite proud of finding a way to make that work for her. Really most of the credit goes to Spitfire and...

Magdlyn- Please allow me a moment to nurse my wounded pride. Of course I use all the tools available to me. Ramming your penis into things over and over is exhausting and a little boring. Not feet though. Never feet. As to it being TMI, I'm glad she told me about it. I'd rather have a chance...

Hey, a little advice. Maybe you're already doing this, but go slow and check in on how he's feeling about things. Does he know about neighbor state guy yet? Dude's gotta feel a certain way about this. I know every step my wife has taken has hit me hard at first and taking time to heal before...

So after kind of a sleepless night, I talked to Spitfire. Thanks to work and the kids we didn't really have a chance to talk things out. Luckily I'm on vacation and she had the day off. After we dropped the kids off at daycare we talked. I felt guilty for bringing up such a stupid hangup but she...

So it happened. Spitfire had sex with another man. It's not as rough to accept as I thought it would be. You know what's rough? Finding out he's got a much larger dick than you. Now when I say much larger I need to add some context. I am fairly well endowed. Outside of porn I've never seen...

Now that I've got the kids home and the little one is napping, I just wanted to thank you IceSong and FallenAngelina for your inputs. It helped add a seasoned perspective to things and I really liked the point about the ring. Helped pull me out of my own head. I feel a little more comfort...

So things are going well. Spitfire and I are in a good place. My talks with the dude seem to be going pretty good. Not sure what to call him yet, or if he'll even be around long enough to get a name. Spitfire is currently at Bashir's house for the weekend. Originally she had taken sex off the...

So ups and downs. Spitfire went on her date with #2 (who shall henceforth be known as Bashir). They had a real good time together but I was right. The emotional overload gave her quite a few issues. I'm grateful Bashir was there for her. Apparently the dude is very respectful of my feelings...

So Spitfire's on her date today and I'm home early from work. An interesting thing happened while we were talking last night. She told me she's ready for me to start talking to women. Just talking and making friends for now. She told me she feels incredibly guilty about putting that boundary on...

I don't think there is a country without COVID 19 right now. Luckily we live in a county with a low number of cases and we all work in fairly safe environments. We've all agreed it seems like a very low risk situation. I'll let you know if we catch the virus. At least that way this could be a...

Magdlyn: Thanks for dropping by! I've been wandering all over this site, to include to relationships corner. There's a lot to take in. Sadly I didn't find anything I felt pertained to me on the first page but the future is vast and mostly unknowable. It's good to have a place to go like that...

So Spitfire and I had a good talk this morning. One of the guys she is talking to asked if she would be his girlfriend. She told him that she'd have to talk to me about it and see how I felt. She even warned him that I would feel it's premature and irrational (they haven't even met in person...

Good point! I can look at it as my noble sacrifice. lol While that is amusing it does actually make me feel better about it.