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Would not be for me. Self harm is IMHO one facet of mental illness and I would not judge a person just because they have/had mental illness

Could be, but weirder and weirder, just tried again and the registration screen first thing asks this question when I use my Android tablet, but on the PC it does not appear. Not sure adultery is really illegal in France the last 4 French presidents have had mistresses, but this lot have been...

Nope just tried, still asks me if I'm married, and just looking for friends or single at first sign up. Perhaps its a geographical thing.

Really useful, thanks Karen.

No because it gives you the choice of "married and just here for freinds" or "single" (and still does today) the implications were that single people were looking for lovers while if you were married you were only looking for friends. If you are poly and married the second may not be true. As...

Thanks Magdlyn for the kind advice. I don't think there is any guilt, its just they were ready to be together alone for a longer period and this coincided with Wolf getting a +1 invite to Paris for a couple of days, so Angel could go as his girlfriend. So this seemed a very romantic way for it...

This is a really good question. But you would need to understand the relationship. We spend a huge amount of time as a 3some, we are not a Triad I have no romantic relationship with Wolf, but he is a very very good friend and we spend a lot of time together. We did BEFORE it became sexual...

We came out after about 3 months into Angel's first serious relationship. So about 3 months ago.This was mainly to about 8 to 10 friends and our daughter. The reason we came out, and to the people we did, was that Angel (my wife) and Wolf (her boyfriend) and I shared some friends and we were in...

Thanks that is really helpful.

On Sunday Wolf asked Angel if she would come to Paris with in 4 weeks time for a few days as his official girlfriend while he is on business. To be clear I knew this was coming because he had asked me first if I was Ok with him asking her even though they know they don't have to ask my...

The immediate problem I saw with OKC was that at first registration it asks if you are "single or married and just here for friends" for a married polyamorous person like me neither applies. What do other people put?

I feel very sorry for you, and I do not disagree with the advice you have already been given above. Don't let ANYONE treat you in a way that makes you feel bad about yourself. You deserve better. I'm sure that you still look gorgeous and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. Perhaps it's...

In short no, in fact quite the opposite, the sex has increased and become more passionate. I think, the liberation Angel feels with being open about her polyamory has had a very positive effect. These days I'm more worried about keeping up with her!

This is really good advice, as the husband of a polyamorous women my experience so far is that over thinking the sex, over worrying about what she does or enjoys with her lover, trying to be competitive with her lover etc make the sex more difficult. Concentrating on her and your enjoyment and...

If you want to take one study, that you have not read, just a summary from a news organisation against the thousands of studies and professionals who will tell you its unreliable. Most non parisan organisations report a circa 30% failure rate. Your decision. Would not trust it at all.

I'm not American either but I would not have seen what you said as a clear no. Earlier on you say, "we had a condom, but no foam" so from his perspective HE was using effective birth control. You must have taken timeout from love making to apply the condom, then continue with intercourse...

I don't think you should be forced or cajoled into comming out by a work event, or come out just because its the easiest thing to do on the day, especially to a group of what appears to be relative strangers. IF you are happy to go to this event and If you live in a community where people take...

Completely agree 100% Polyamory will certainly never ever fix a relationship but it MAY allow you to experience a second or third relationship that gives you something, or where you can give something, that an other otherwise fulfilling existi g relationship does not allow.

Firstly let me say as a male with a long term partner, I have had a vasectomy as I don't believe that birth control is something that just concern women. That said, its a joint responsibility, it can't just be his. From what you have said it would seem that the pill would be the ideal birth...

The Dr is married to River Song in the past or future so he is definitely poly.