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Mags, I profusely apologize for getting goddesses mixed up!!! As always, your feedback is greatly appreciated, no matter. Thank the gods I am not the only one who was underwhelmed. I thought it was written by cheerleaders. (Give me a P! Give me an O!) I get it, you want to paint your...

To: @Magdlyn Re: Non Violent Communication Over the Christmas holiday, DAG and I went out of state to visit his family. I stayed for a few days and flew home, while DAG is taking an extended vacation through New Years and won't be home until a couple of days after NYE. On the flight back...

GG! I understand the differences in the scenarios. The examples you provide are clear. Now it's up to me to figure out where the line is between 2A and 2B. In all seriousness, thank you for the 2x4. I will admit a certain amount of denseness on my part. It takes a good, strong not-literal...

Evie and AG, thank you for your perspectives. I am very literal, so I am sure this is one of those times where I'm putting everything which refers to 'ownership' into one box. One definition doesn't necessarily fit all. But it really hits home when DAG tells me 'you're mine'. Dude, no I'm not...

Happy Monday everyone! I'd like to have some feedback on how the good folks on this board view 'ownership' towards a partner/SO/FWB. Some background. I sent a text to my ex-meta regarding his rough playtime with DAG. I worded it in a way which stated a rule, not a want. Basically, it was a...

I am afraid if I share this with the universe, the universe will punish me for enjoying life. Last night, DAG and I went to Flunky's (formerly Fiance) surprise birthday party. I had an awesome time!! Joker planned the party to perfection! He and Flunky have really good friends and it seemed...

Today is my 5 year wedding anniversary with DAG! There were times I thought we wouldn't make it this far. The fact that I'm still here after thick and very thin is a testament to my commitment to my relationship with him. I feel we had a really good session with our marriage counselor. DAG...

A quick update. I spoke with DAG this weekend about our lack of sex. He stated since I say I'm not more emotionally connected with him, then he feels he can't have sex with me. Why should he have sex with someone who is not fully emotionally connected with him? So for us to have sex, I have to...

WOW! Just... WOW! Our Thanksgiving holiday with Teach was fantastic! Flew in Wednesday night, and flew out Saturday morning. On Thanksgiving day, he gave us a walking tour of his neighborhood. While out, we walked past the house of one of his neighbors, who happened to be home. He knocks on...

If you've been reading this blog, you know DAG and I have a new marriage counselor. We met with her yesterday and had a really good session. First, Mags made a great observation in one of her posts above. She stated she thinks DAG and I might be too enmeshed. Guess what? I think she's...

Here's a kicker! Today, I was texting with a friend (I'll call him Joker) who is a mutual friend of Bruiser and Fisticuffs. I like Joker a lot. A good guy, who evidently doesn't have a clue as to the events between myself, DAG, B and FC. As far as I know, Joker only knows that we all know...

I am glad to read that it's gotten better for you! I do not know if and how you celebrate the holiday season, but I hope those do not add stress to you. I'll down some Jim Beam in your honor tonight! :D Post edited for clarity/brevity.

It's finally over. I finally let go of the last issue I had with DAGs foray into polyamory. I am able to pinpoint when I was able to let it go. This past Sunday, DAG wanted me to help him build a headboard for a bedroom we are decorating. The build required the cutting of some upholstery...

@icesong I am sending you positive vibes today. I know your last post is almost a month old, but hopefully things in your life have made a turn for the better.

I think DAG is listening and learning from the past. He's met a potential new friend and has been in contact with him for the past month. I have not met him yet, so I am not putting my thoughts of him on this site just yet. Last night, DAG spoke with him by phone and was told his (I'll call...

Your costume is awesome!! I really like the pauldrons. The mask is ridiculous, in a good way. :) You need some shoes that look like hooves and your golden!! I hope you get the answers you need regarding your pleasure chest discovery.

I had an interesting conversation with DAG. We start caressing each other last evening. I wanted a secure hug, so I hugged him. He then says 'this is yours. I am yours'. Holy crap! I am taken aback, as one of the big issues from the B/FC era was the meaning of 'ownership' and how we did not...

GG I don't mean to be misleading, so please forgive me if it seems I'm fudging on this. When I type these, I'm distilling these down to the basic meaning, especially the first and third. The second point is something DAG has, almost to the word, said to me. I see your point though, even...

icesong Not to say 'emotionless', but DAG has a 'matter-of-fact' way of delivering his thoughts. As in 'it's not my fault you didn't comprehend what I said' or 'it's not my fault you don't like me sleeping with others', Which is true, it's not his fault. And I'm the one that's cold? But gawd...

Mags He can be, yes. Not as much as I have been. The shouting matches (mostly from miscommunications) during the B/FC era were epic (The Last Night of Games immediately comes to mind). Which is why I'm in therapy and why we are in marriage therapy. We've discussed about his need to see a...