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What do you mean NO. I heard Chris Williamson ( podcaster ) say it was the fastest grown kink and porn category….the show wasn’t specifically about the cuckoldry but porn category’s …step mom porn, etc. Id say those who get turned on are way closer to and will have an easier time slipping...

I thought this was a big tent of see positivity and everyone has the right to their own kinks and preferences among consenting adults Hey you got to start somewhere. My opinion is too each his or her own I wasn’t judging them I’m surprised you are. Intellectually I’d agree with that...

How do you know? Maybe she’s very very persuasive and persistent and knows exactly what and when to say it. Woman have been known to to make men do all kinds of crazy stuff. Don’t sell your gender short. Or possibly to get drilled by young well-hung dudes while MrD is home warming up for sloppy...

Hey, MrD. Welcome to the forum Seriously, what’s the appreciable difference between a tongue, fingers and a penis? I mean, I don’t get the red lines. How old is said bf? Have we had the safer sex talk? Seen any lab results after they swapped secretions? Sounds like she wants to turn you into a...

Part 2 How long was her mourning period? How long before she started dating again? What was your daughter’s reaction to him leaving? Did you get to move back into the bedroom? Wow, I can’t even imagine that scenario. Seriously, probably everyone involved deserves a medal. 🏅 Yes, I’m sure...

Thanks, it's nice to meet you as well. Looking back, were the failures due one or both of you not being totally committed to the process, or would you say it just boiled down to incompatibility? So in other words, you saw or felt signs of her checking out? And this was 4 -5 yrs in front of...

As far as I recall, the mom and dad were guests. But the person who sent that piece corrected my recollection, in that it ended up being a throuple. Mom and Dad either weren’t asked or weren’t in a position to pony up any money for this event, and the bride and groom didn’t want their wedding...

Hi Jay and welcome to the forum. This is really interesting to me because I just wrote a thread in the general section that may cross with some of the topics you're presenting here. Up and to that point, with the therapy and such, how much research did either of you or your wife do on poly...

I’d also suggest meeting. Dating and fucking around is to gain experience to help find the right match or best fit to you. Talk about a flood of raw emotions. Interesting. I’ve never seen this or considered this. I’d add the word meaningful milestones. A while back, someone sent me a reddit...

The “we,” imo, has made the difference. When being a part of the break-room conversation, and then having several recent conversations , recent podcast, and recent threads in my head, i.e., poly under duress, then chatting with a poly-bombed guy reconciling his sporadic, nonexistent sex life...

I'd argue once someone has the idea, and/or suggests opening the relationship, inherent/intrinsic cease to be relevant, especially if relationship anarchy is in the air because of the multi-levels of change on top of the primary motivations for that structural change. Have you been in a...

As off putting as that might be for some / whatever the % is for women he might have a fair amount of success there. It’s the same numbers game🙃🫣👍

That’s pretty declarative. Are you thinking in terms of basis. I would think each side of the relationship would get to determine in how that all plays out like you suggest in the “ how “ . So how would that relate to this situation. I don’t know / don’t think the young woman in...

BINGO !! My initial thought. Pack your shit and get out if you thought you wanted mono wife house and kids. Yeah I don’t think I’ve heard that specifically either ….i have heard women giving time sensitive nudge. I should know more of how this demographic thinks and act having 2 kids...

Yes given the nature of that particularly break room “ forum “ it’s hard to really know what was actually said between him and her if there was a triggering event, etc, etc my point maybe mind reading wasn’t exactly needed. HE did say a few time he was completely caught off guard he had no...

Sitting around the break room Monday, one of the lads was being harassed, teased, given shit on his recent GF situation. They have been dating going on 3 yrs and within the last 6-8 months moved in together. Recently she requested they dial back their relationship to “casual." The subtext was...

What I found interesting today rereading it is the parsing of word’s coercion and consent. AND THAT I just mentioned Marcus in another thread recently 😝🤣. In many of these poly bomb or affair convert to poly situations choice is about trying to pick the least shitty. I know for certain...

For starters, I don’t know how many 3sums you’ve participated in, but under this set of circumstances, the fine print could have a pretty extensive list of no-go's there, plus what’s actually being offered might look more like MFF, with wife being in the center. I think context really matters...

Like hundreds of thousands before you. Welcome to the club and the forum. 😆👍 So you’ve been open for roughly 2 yrs. The first yr, things were fine, and gradually her attraction or desire for you has gone away. Did she offer any reasons or suggestions as to why? This is interesting because this...