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I have learned such brilliant new words since I been here. Seriously I love it. :D

al, that was a cracking job of trying to find someone to feature in your documentary. ;) You smooth dude. :D

Sorry Ray. You were worthy, open and honest and they were not.

Not into this at all. Just as well really, my wife would be disgusted and that would affect things between us for sure.

Thanks again sage for starting this thread. I am fast finding this my favourite place to unload on, mainly it is just a process of reviewing things for myself, but I hope it will perhaps be of use to other "new" monos. (Of course I have always been mono so not new- but have never thought there...

Oh yes! We met properly at the end of the first month. But we had been talking by phone and text since the second week. We had to have a channel of communication between us to help sort out problems. Then we had a big breakthrough between us about week 8. We see each other now and then in...

I admire you two girls. The big difference for me is that OHb is never in my space nor I in his; my wife spends time in each place. I suspect that is why I SEEM to have adjusted so fast. A whole raft of feelings I have sidestepped, other monos are dealing with daily. In your situation I might...

Ray I think you are incredibly perceptive about relationships considering you are so young and have never been in one. Certainly what your intuition is telling you makes a lot of sense. You may have hit the nail on the head about them as a couple not being ready. I said it before, you seem a...

:rolleyes: shit sage is that how you are supposed to do it? Everything for us was completely opposite. Lol.:D Good advice though.

Kat I have high hopes for you!! You are starting off in a much better frame of mind and situation than I did. God bless Kat and all who sail in her! May all your sticking points be small ones. :D

Mono , that bit is something to scare a mono shitless. :eek: That is just the way I hope my wife does NOT feel.

Welcome Kat. You seem quite calm about this. That's a good start.:D

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Hi Flamekat. I haven't read your story. I will have to go find your first post to learn something about you! James in England

I guess I was wondering about people who have maybe had poly leanings for years, but been more or less happy in a monogamous long term relationship, how they controlled themselves, whether it made them very unfulfilled etc etc; I wasn't talking about having a partner impose control on them. OK...

Struggling Mono Poetry Hi all, I just found these again. These are my own poems, written in the first two weeks of becoming a V, and when I was overwhelmed by everything. I wrote them for myself to get my feelings out; my wife never saw them. I don't know if they will be of interest to anyone...

Just wondering? Can poly-ness be switched on and off? Is it a state of being , innate and hard wired? I feel like I am hard wired mono. I could give reasons if somebody wanted. Just wondered if someone who is poly can give reasons why they feel the way they do. So I can understand what's over...

I really like this RP, It is a new way to look at things (for me) and don't want to hijack your thread, but a few points/questions come to mind: 1) I believe a completely monogamous couple can also live with this same philosophy of abundance and giving. Admittedly, many DON'T. 2) How do you...

Thanks Derbylicious that is it. ;):D

Our kids used to sing a song at nursery years ago. Can't remember all the words. But it was that love is like a Magic Penny. If you keep it to yourself you have a penny but if you give it away you get more pennies back. Something like that. I guess this is the same thing.