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Thank you all for your shared wisdom and words. I will respond properly after some sleep...

Oh he is gorgeous! I love the pose :) And yes I think some light and music and art and fun is exactly what you both need right now!! Please keep us posted

Makes perfect sense :) And I really really hope you find a place soon! Crossing fingers for you.

wow that is a lot to deal with! May I ask why only your younger son and not the older one too? And I hope that for some of the financial mess you are taking steps to limit your responsibility for his debt - ie, cancelling the cards, moving your name off the house etc. I have sadly come to...

I'm ready to tell more of my story. After reading many of the threads and stories here, I feel I'm in the right place to talk this through and hopefully find some kind of answers or at least the ability to feel less sad/angry/annoyed/ hopeful in a continual loop. I've lived my entire life...

Ah Spork - I can feel the sadness emanating from this post! Feeling like that is definitely not love and he is very very bitter indeed! Really the fact that he and all his current entourage are still there is proof of your care and humaneness. I'd have kicked them all out by now, or moved out...

I take it then that the jealousy springs mostly from the intensity of their time together since it's so sporadic. There must be a growing excitement as the time gets closer, and I assume that little else makes it into her thoughts (or words?) the closer it gets. And I assume you have to deal...

welcome here. :) There are some great threads and answers about emotions and how to learn to deal with them here. when you say they don't get to see each other very often - how often is that?

Welcome Goldilocks! Your relationship with A sounds wonderful! I'd also not know how to open up the discussion with kids, but I like the idea of it being an ongoing discussion. Since the poly concept is fairly new to me (as is my potential bisexuality) I've started discussing the concepts...

Thank you all for the feedback. Lots to go through and think on. :)

Thank you for your kind words. We hit a bit of a bump here the last few days, but he seems to be trying so very hard to come to grips with this all. (The man jokingly refers to my mid life crisis) Today is not a good day, but I'm trying to move forward, not dwell on what is probably never...

Hi Elise and welcome :) It sounds as though this is something you both want, which means it's more likely to be a fun and exciting adventure of learning, growth and increased love for both of you. I hope it will be everything you need and desire!

Hi Bumblebee, and welcome here, even though you've been here lurking much longer than I have :) I love that you always identified with the idea of open love - to me that is beautiful!

A question for partners who identify as monogamous, or for those with partners who are either monogamous with you or still figuring out what Poly means to them... How long did/does it take you to understand and accept your partner's poly identity? Is there a process to the acceptance? Is there...

All three of our kids are huge fans of all the shows you mentioned. They are well versed in the ways of the geek - it's a given with their parentage. LOL Also, Harry Potter, Marvel and DC Superheroes, and Terry Pratchett (awesome bedtime stories actually). Our youngest walks around imitating...

welcome here. Im sorry to hear about the heartache you are experiencing - it's not a fun place to be in at all!

Geee, your summation on life partner and soul mate applies to me too. for me, I chose my love, but my soul mate happened to me. Welcome here and all the best for finding the support and strength you need!

I love the idea of a geeky sex life! Our family is fully geek - we do PC based gaming with all the kids regularly. FPS, racing games etc... I think we should introduce them to DND soon too... BTW, welcome here :) EVen though you joined before me!

Spork, you can try a variety of fruits, strawberries, bananas, kiwi fruit, orange segments... All good :) Thanks for the support, I've done a lot of soul searching, I just want to be authentically me.. I really want to be content in my skin and feel relatively happy with life.

Oh LOL!! I'm still just a baby dom... Still learning... And he is still learning to not argue back ;) so this support is totally outside the realm of that... Lol. But I find it comes so easily to me and he loves it when she comes out to play too. Both these new concepts have brought so much...